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Lots of people find the jump to A-levels really hard. I can hear youre feeling overwhelmed and pressured to feel you are keeping up with everyone else. Chances are youre not the only one feeling this way, even if other people do look like they are coping with the workload.
Sometimes when things feel so overwhelming, our brains can feel as if they are shutting down. It can be hard to then find the energy and motivation to get going again, especially when something feels too big to tackle in that moment.
I got the sense that this is having a really big effect on you, as youre not feeling able to put in the effort to do the work. That then leads to more work being piled on top.
Lots of people can struggle academically through school, college and university, but still go on to have successful careers and futures. Its important to do as best you can at school and college but its true that this style of learning is not for everyone, and thats okay. Struggling through this month does not make you a failure or unsuitable for life. Youve recognised how overwhelmed youre feeling and youve taken steps to get some help.
Another option might be for you to talk to your tutors. They should be aware of how tough all this can be and would be used to offering some extra support. It might even help for you to just hear from them that other people find this tough too. It can also be helpful to identify what support you need right now. That could include information on study tips or study support groups.
It can be hard to feel instantly motivated when you are carrying so much. Thinking about how things can be broken down into manageable chunks could help with seeing what roads lead out of the nightmare youre feeling trapped in. You might want to have a look at the ChildLine message boards as there are already some threads on there that talk about Study Help: Exams, homework, coursework & learning. If theres not an existing thread on there that you find helpful, you could think about starting your own one.
Thoughts can sometimes feel jumbled. Just having a space to talk and let everything out, can help to start untangle things. If you wanted to talk to a ChildLine counsellor then they are here for you.
Hope this letter has been helpful.
Take care,
Sam.
You can talk privately to a counsellor online or call 0800 1111 for free.
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