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Something on your mind? Or need some support?

Anyone can write in with their problem. I respond to a few letters each week. You can also read my advice to people who have similar problems to you.

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You can ask me about anything you want, there's nothing too big or small. I read every single letter but I can only answer a few each week. My replies are published here on my page.

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What you need to know:

  • Sam reads every letter, but can only respond to a few each week
  • Sam's replies are public, never private, so others can read them
  • Sam will remove personal info from your letter to keep it anonymous
  • if yours is chosen, you'll see it under one of the topics below
  • if you need support now or want to talk privately, contact a Childline counsellor.

Latest letters

How I Look | Ask Sam

Dear Sam, How do I deal with how I look? To put it simply, I’m ugly. Please don’t respond with some sort of comforting “Don’t say that about yourself!!!”, and leave it at that. I‘m...

Racism | Ask Sam

To Sam What do I do if I have people being racist to me at school? I’m fully Chinese for context. I know I can report them but they will just bully me harder (for snitching, etc). And...

Seats on the train | Ask Sam

Hiii Sam! I just wanted to hop on and say that I find it really hard to get a seat on the train when I’m travelling when I need a seat because standing up can be hard for me to do sometimes. I...

I am deaf. What should I do? | Ask Sam

I am the only person in my family who is deaf. This makes me feel isolated and alone can you help me?

I don’t know what to call this emotion | Ask Sam

A few days ago i was in a classroom, and my teacher started making every student stand up and say somethings about themselves, and even when he was far from me, my hands started sweating...

confusion | Ask Sam

i recently broke up with my boyfriend. we only dated for 5 months, but he was my first for a lot of things, including sex. However since this one thing happened between us, i havent...

Feeling hopeless and powerless | Ask Sam

Hi Sam, I’m struggling to find purpose in spite of everything going on in the world currently - it feels like there is no hope for the future and no point concerning myself with A-levels...

I don’t like how I look | Ask Sam

Hi Sam, you dont have to respond to this letter but i just want to let it out because i feel like i have nobody to talk to. Anyway, i feel like i eat too much and i feel guilty eating...
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grooming | Ask Sam

Hi sam, so recently i got groomed by someone 6years older then me and like its hard to get over him because he made me feel really happy. i know its wrong but i always seem to find...

My friend recorded me | Ask Sam

my friend recorded me while i was high on 2 different occasions. the firt time i got too high and i ate alot before so i ended up throwing up and instead of helping me (give me water...

Help please | Ask Sam

hi sam i feal like a complete idiot messaging you cause of what u might think if me for the past 2 months i have realy being struggerling with something. i am completely into boys and...

Sexual blackmail | Ask Sam

My name is Ewan and I'm 16 years old. A girl on Snapchat got an explicit image of me and is threatening to show it to all of my friends on Instagram She is blackmailing me for money...

i feel obligated to sex | Ask Sam

at one point i told my boyfriend id have sex with him but on recent thought i’ve decided that id rather wait until im older as im only 16. does it make me a bad person to tell him ive...

My friend's eating problem | Ask Sam

Hi Sam, My friend has been doing something lately, and its making me worry. I haven't seen her at break or lunchtimes. A few weeks ago, I was eating my lunch and she came over to me...

Helping my friend | Ask Sam

Hi Sam, im not sure if you can help but one of my friends has been sh-ing for a while but she told me she stopped but she also sends me really dark depressing videos and i dont mind...