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Anyone can write in with their problem. I respond to a few letters each week. You can also read my advice to people who have similar problems to you.

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Latest letters

I am depressed | Ask Sam

Hi, I’m struggling a lot with my emotions lately. Small mistakes feel huge, and I get overwhelmed very easily. I’ve been dealing with low mood for a long time and it’s becoming really...

Revenge | Ask Sam

Hi Sam, How are you? Do you think it is bad to get revenge on someone if it undoes their bad action.  If someone steals something from you and there is absolutely no way to get it back...

How do I feel liked without sexualising myself? | Ask Sam

Dear Sam, I never really feel liked or loved by boys unless I sexualise myself, not showing anything private, but wear short shorts, push up bras or even just standing with an arch,...

Feelings about my relationships | Ask Sam

Hey Sam, I'm a 13 turning 14 year old girl, and I've been dating this person for around a year and a half. They're the same age as me and we met in school before I became home schooled,...

Do I have a drinking problem | Ask Sam

I've always been against drinking, alcoholism runs in the family. But since turning 18, I seem to drink a lot, any time I can get my hands on some I drink. I drink a lot till I can't...

Will this have a long term effect? | Ask Sam

Hi Sam, I'm turning 16 in a few weeks, when I was 11 or 12 I had a pretty bad smoking and drinking addiction, to the point where sometimes I couldn't go days without drinking, and my...

I Fucked Up | Ask Sam

I sent a nude picture to someone on Snapchat, luckily I didn't include my face or anything that you would know was me or in my room, Now I think of that. I'm not too worried about it,...

Safety and Worry | Ask Sam

I’m 17 and for about two months, whenever I went to my local library during free periods, there was an older man who seemed to watch me, look for where I was sitting, walk past me,...
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Revenge | Ask Sam

Hi Sam, How are you? Do you think it is bad to get revenge on someone if it undoes their bad action.  If someone steals something from you and there is absolutely no way to get it back...

I Fucked Up | Ask Sam

I sent a nude picture to someone on Snapchat, luckily I didn't include my face or anything that you would know was me or in my room, Now I think of that. I'm not too worried about it,...

Safety and Worry | Ask Sam

I’m 17 and for about two months, whenever I went to my local library during free periods, there was an older man who seemed to watch me, look for where I was sitting, walk past me,...

Racism | Ask Sam

To Sam What do I do if I have people being racist to me at school? I’m fully Chinese for context. I know I can report them but they will just bully me harder (for snitching, etc). And...

confusion | Ask Sam

i recently broke up with my boyfriend. we only dated for 5 months, but he was my first for a lot of things, including sex. However since this one thing happened between us, i havent...

My mum and dad emotionally abuse me | Ask Sam

hi sam, my mum and dad need to understand boundaries. they always expect more when i have nothing left to give, sometimes i get scare coming home because they will have gone through...

I need help | Ask Sam

I was on a random video chat app when a whole group of people started targeting me, they were racist, called me names, and told me to leave my country. It felt like a mob attack, not...

Why am I the target | Ask Sam

Dear Sam. I have just finished my first year of secondary school, but for some reason, everyone just picks on ME and I dont understand why I am the target? How can I be more self resilient...