
Sexually transmitted infections
A sexually transmitted infection (STI) is passed from person to person through having sex and sexual contact. Anyone can get an STI, no matter what their gender is, so it’s important to stay protected.
Content warning: This page contains mentions of sexual assault.
Protecting yourself
Being sexually active without the right contraception means there's a chance you could catch an STI, sometimes called a Sexually Transmitted Disease (STD). Even if you are completely healthy, the person you're sexually active with might not be.
Condoms help stop infections being spread during sex. You can get them for free from sexual health clinics, or you can buy them from lots of shops and pharmacies. These aren’t the only form of contraception, but it’s important to remember that not all contraception will protect you from STIs. We’ve got lots of advice about what you can use.
If you've had sex without using a condom, it's important to get screened for STIs. This means a professional can test if you have an STI and give you treatment if you need it. Find out about sexual health tests.
How to protect yourself from an STI:
- Always use contraception whenever you’re sexually active
- Talk to your partner to agree what kind of contraception you should use
- Get free condoms from sexual health clinics or GP surgeries
- Visit your doctor or a sexual health clinic if you’re worried or you’ve been sexually active without contraception
What to do if you think you have an STI
If you've had sex without using a condom, your partner has an STI, or you're worried that you might have one yourself, it’s important to get tested.
It’s simple to get tested for STIs, and you can speak to your doctor, a nurse or visit a sexual health clinic.
Speaking about your sexual health is usually confidential. When you go in for an STI test, you’ll be asked a little about your sexual history and what makes you think you could have an STI.
What if I’m feeling embarrassed?
Lots of people feel embarrassed talking about sex or being sexually active. It can help to remind yourself that the person you’ll speak to won’t judge you, and is there to help. They’ve been trained to help you with what’s happening and will have spoken to lots of people just like you.
If you’re struggling to go, it might help to ask a friend to go with you or speak to a Childline counsellor for support.
What if I’m worried that I’m pregnant?
If you think that you might be pregnant, it’s important to take a pregnancy test. You can get these from sexual health clinics, or buy them from shops and pharmacies.
Can I go at any age?
Anyone aged 13 and above can attend a sexual health clinic. You are entitled to confidentially but if the doctor or nurse you see is worried about you, they’ll talk to you about sharing some information to make sure you’re safe.
When you’re under 13, you may not be able to speak confidentiality, and sexual health clinics may refer you to see a specialist doctor to make sure you’re getting the right support and that they’re keeping you safe.
You can contact your local sexual health clinic to ask what kind of support they can offer, and about their confidentiality. If you’re worried, you can also speak to us any time.
I’ve been raped or sexually assaulted
If you’ve been raped or sexually assaulted, it’s not your fault and you deserve support. It can feel hard talking about what’s happening, which can sometimes make it difficult to ask for help.
You can still visit a sexual health centre or your doctor any time, and the NHS has advice on different places you can get specialist support. If you’re worried about what to do next, it can help to speak to a Childline counsellor about it. You can talk to us about anything.
Types of infections
There are lots of different kinds of sexually transmitted infections. If you think you might have one, you should always visit your doctor or a sexual health clinic.
Chlamydia
Chlamydia often doesn't have any symptoms. This means that people can be infected without knowing it. They can easily pass it on to others without realising. Chlamydia can live in the penis, vagina, mouth and anus so it is important to remember to tell the clinic if you have oral or anal sex.
If you do get symptoms, they can be:
- a stinging sensation when you wee (urinate)
- discharge from the penis, vagina or anus
- women may experience some pain during sex or bleeding between periods.
If left untreated, chlamydia can turn into more serious infections of the pelvis in physically female people and infection of the testicles in physically male people. It can be easily identified by a swab or urine test and treated with antibiotics.
Genital warts
Genital warts can be passed on from skin-to-skin contact during vaginal, anal or oral sex. The symptoms are the warts themselves – they may look like warts you get on your fingers or hands, or they may look flat and hard. They can spread and get bigger. So if you think you might have warts, it’s a good idea to get them treated as soon as you can.
Treatment comes in the form of creams, liquids or, depending on their size, freezing them or even surgery. Genital warts can be treated successfully, but the symptoms can appear again when you’re run down or ill.
Sexual health clinics don’t test for warts, and will diagnose it by doing an examination. Sometimes they may do a swab if they are unsure and want to check for other infections.
Genital warts that you can see aren’t dangerous, although they can be uncomfortable and can sometimes make people feel self-conscious. Lots of people can have one of the viruses that causes warts and never get any symptoms.
Gonorrhoea
Gonorrhoea often doesn't have symptoms. However, women or physically female people can find weeing painful, experience pain during sex or find that they have a really unpleasant-smelling, yellowish-green discharge.
Men or physically male people with a gonorrhoea infection can experience painful testicles and yellowish-coloured discharge coming from the penis.
Someone may also have discharge from their anus if they’ve gotten the infection from anal sex.
Gonorrhoea can also live in the mouth so it is important to remember to tell the clinic if you have oral sex.
If left untreated, gonorrhoea can turn into more serious infections of the pelvis in physically female people and infection of the testicles in physically male people. Gonorrhoea can be easily identified by a swab or urine (wee) test and treated with antibiotics.
Syphilis
People with syphilis often don’t have any symptoms, but the common ones are:
- a small, painless ulcer, called a chancre early on which can be around the mouth, genitals or anus, depending on how it was passed on. The ulcer will go away by itself, but you are still infected
- a rash somewhere on your body later on, sometimes taking several months before appearing.
Syphilis can be passed on through vaginal, oral and anal sex, as well as through contact with someone’s genitals if they have a chancre.
If left for a long time, syphilis can affect other parts of the body. But it can be treated with antibiotics and is diagnosed with a blood test.
Genital herpes
Genital herpes is a virus that is passed on from sexual intercourse, oral sex or skin-to-skin contact.
It is the same virus that causes cold sores, and can affect your genitals, anus or mouth. If you’re infected, you may feel a tingling or itching feeling around your genitals, anus or mouth. Then you’ll notice small blisters, which burst and leave painful sores. It is tested by swabbing the blister or sore.
Genital herpes can be treated successfully, but can’t be cured. So once you have the virus in your body, you may notice symptoms again when you’re run down or ill.
Lots of people can have genital or oral herpes without ever knowing. When you don’t have the blisters or sores it is very hard to pass it on to your partner, but it can still happen. If you are only having sex with one person and catch herpes for the first time, it doesn’t mean your partner has cheated on you. It could be they’ve had it for a long time without realising. It can be helpful for you and your partner to speak to a nurse or doctor together at the sexual health clinic if you are worried.
Hepatitis B
Hepatitis B is a virus that is passed on through sexual intercourse and blood to blood contact, including sharing needles and straws for drugs.
It is a virus that attacks the liver and can possibly cause long term damage.
You can be tested for Hepatitis B with a blood test. Symptoms of Hepatitis B usually involve getting flu-like symptoms a few weeks after catching it, it can also cause jaundice where your skin and eyes turn a yellowish colour. These symptoms will go away after a short time, and you may not experience any other symptoms for many years.
A lot of people who catch Hepatitis B will naturally get rid of the virus by themselves as their immune system is strong enough to deal with it. Very young people, older people and people with weak immune systems have a lower chance of naturally clearing it.
Vaccinations against Hepatitis B are available, and usually involve 3-4 injections over a number of weeks. Hepatitis B is more common amongst people from certain parts of the world, those who have anal sex and those who share drug needles and straws. If you think you may need the Hepatitis B vaccination speak to your sexual health clinic for more information.
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What is HIV?
HIV is a virus that attacks the immune system and can be passed on through unprotected sex. HIV stands for Human Immunodeficiency Virus.
If someone has HIV, they may experience symptoms including a fever, rash and severe sore throat all at once which can last a few days to a few weeks. This can occur anywhere from 10 days to 4 weeks after being infected. After that you may not get any symptoms for many years.
How do you get HIV?
HIV can be passed on when infected blood, precum, semen or vaginal secretions is passed into an uninfected person.
Semen is the liquid that carries sperm and is released from a penis during sex. Semen, precum and vaginal fluids can be infected with HIV when someone is HIV positive, meaning they're carrying the virus.
You cannot catch HIV from things like coughing, sneezing, kissing, sharing a toilet seat, swimming pools, sweat or tears.
If someone is taking medication properly to control their HIV, they can have what is called an undetectable viral load. They still have HIV and need to continue taking their medication, but the level of virus is so low that tests cannot pick it up. It has been proven that if someone with HIV is undetectable it is impossible for them to pass on their HIV.
Who can get HIV?
Anyone can get HIV, regardless of their age, gender or sexuality. Anyone is at risk if they have unprotected sex or inject drugs.
How do you know if you’re HIV positive?
The only way of knowing if you have HIV is by having a blood test to check for the virus, which you can get at sexual health centres or by visiting your doctor.
How can I protect myself from HIV?
The best ways to protect yourself from HIV are:
- using a condom whenever you have sex or are sexually active
- never sharing needles with someone else if you’re injecting medicine or drugs.
If you have had sex with someone who you think has HIV, you can attend a sexual health clinic within 72 hours to see if you need Post Exposure Prophylaxis (PEP). PEP is a 4 week long course of three medications that can help reduce the chance of HIV taking hold in your body. PEP can have some side effects and requires taking medication at the same time everyday. PEP is given out based on national guidelines and not everyone is eligible, but if you are concerned speak to the sexual health clinic to find out if you may need it. PEP is not 100% effective, so people can still catch HIV even after taking PEP.
Pre-Exposure Prophylaxis (PrEP) can help protect you from catching HIV. PrEP is prescribed from sexual health clinics and is given out based on national guidelines. Not everyone needs PrEP but if you think you may be at a higher risk of catching HIV then speak to the sexual health clinic for more information. PrEP is very effective, but not 100%. If you are started on PrEP it is still important to think about other forms of contraception.
What’s the difference between HIV and AIDS?
HIV is the virus that actually attacks the immune system. This is what you're tested for.
AIDS (which stands for Acquired Immunodeficiency Syndrome) is an old term to describe when HIV has developed to the point where the body is no longer able defend itself against infections and viruses.
There is no test for AIDS and the term is rarely used anymore. Today, it is more commonly described as advanced HIV.
Can HIV be cured?
Right now, there’s no cure for HIV, however there are medicines and treatments that can allow people to live long and healthy lives just like everyone else.
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