To sam, I am worried about going up to high school .I will be one of the youngest in the school and my sister who goes there has said it is really bad ,and she hates it there and when they move classrooms it is chaos in the halls .It is just making me feel overwhelmed and I don't know how to think about it. excited, happy, nervous. But I don't know where all the classes are. pls help me.
Sam
Hi there,
It’s natural to feel overwhelmed about starting high school. Adjusting to the new environment can take time but you won’t be the only one feeling this way. Remember, just because your sister doesn’t like it, it doesn’t mean you won’t.
Lots of schools will have ways to help you know where to go and what to do. Some may offer you a tour or set up visits before you start. Your teachers in your current school can help answer questions about it as well.
When you start, many schools will give out maps to help you find your classrooms. Lots of people are surprised how quickly they learn their way around. Remember it's always okay to ask for help. If you’re worried about the chaos while people are moving classrooms, it can help to speak to your tutor to see if they can help.
It can really help to make friends with the people you start with. There are lots of ways to make friends, you could start with a simple “hi” and ask them questions about themselves. Genuine conversations and shared interests can help you connect and make new friends.
High school may seem big and a bit scary at first, but you’ll find your way and build confidence as time goes on. Lots of young people post on our message boards about what it’s like starting high school, and they can give you tips to help make it all feel easier.
Take care,
Sam
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