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I am nervous about secondary school as none of my friends are going to the same school as me and I feel like I am going to get in trouble as I find it hard to organise myself.
I worry about getting lost or being bullied. I also do not know how I am going to make new friends do you have any advice?
Hi there,
Going up to secondary school can feel daunting, especially when you’re worried about getting organised. There can be lots to think about but remember that you’re not alone and there’s always support. We've got tips for starting a new school and things you can do to help you feel positive.
Before thinking about how to prepare, it can help to remember that you’ve got plenty of time before you start. You’ll find out more about the school you’re going to, it’s also okay to ask your teachers or people in school questions.
Making new friends can take time, but it can help to remember that there’ll be lots of other people going through the same thing. We’ve got lots of tips on making friends to help you get started. Just like in your school now, it’s always okay to tell the teacher if someone tries to bully you.
When you’re thinking about ways to get organised in secondary school, it can help to plan ahead. There are lots of small things you can do to help, for example you can get your bag ready in the evening instead of in the morning. You’ll be given a timetable of what your lessons are, so it can help to make a copy of this to have at home.
Loads of young people use our message boards to talk about going to school. It can be a great idea to ask on there what’s helped people. Sharing ideas and talking about what’s on your mind can make everything feel easier.
Take care,
Sam
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