Hi there,

It’s never okay for anyone to grope or touch you sexually without your permission, or to make sexual comments about you., What you’re describing is sexual harassment, and is abuse.

You have a right to feel safe and supported, especially in school. It’s natural to feel worried about things getting worse if you tell someone, but you shouldn’t have to go through this. There are things you can do that can help you to feel more confident getting support.

It can help to start by thinking about who you trust and feel safe with. This could be a teacher, someone else at school, or even someone at home. Remember, Childline is always here to support you as well. Try to think about a time when you’d feel most safe talking to them. Some young people choose to bring a friend with them when they report something to feel more confident.

There are lots of ways you could start your conversation. Think about what you’d most feel comfortable sharing. It can also help to share that you’re worried about things getting worse afterwards. Sharing your worries can help people to know how best to support you. If you’re struggling with what to say, try practising by yourself or getting things out in a letter.

Remember, what’s happening is serious. Being sexually harassed because you’re gay is a form of homophobia. What you’ve spoken about is against the law, which means you can also report what’s happened to the police if your school isn’t supportive.

You’re not alone and you’re not the only person who’s gone through this kind of abuse. No matter what you decide to do, Childline is here to support you.

Take care,

Sam