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Hi there,
Anyone who kisses you when you have already said no is in the wrong. Its not okay and it could be sexual abuse or sexual harassment. No matter what gender or sexuality someone is, they can still sexually abuse or harass someone else.
Telling someone at school can be scary but its important that someone knows about her behaviour. It could help to think about whats making it difficult to talk to someone at school and see what you can do to make it easier for you.
One idea might be to find a friend who you can trust and see if they will come with you when you tell someone. Another idea is to write it down and email the school about it though even if you do this its likely theyll want to speak to you in person as well.
If you think that she is potentially going to hurt the people she is befriending in year 7, it's definitely important to tell someone. Its possible she doesnt mean to harm them in any way, but it is unusual for someone who is 16 to want to be friends with people much younger than they are.
If you ever felt like this person was doing something that makes you uncomfortable then its okay to leave and tell someone. You could talk to a ChildLine counsellor who could listen or support you, or even call the police if you think they may hurt or abuse you.
take care,
Sam
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