Hi Sam, Ima 13 year old boy i recently found out that you pubic hair shouldn’t be any long then a rice so… i decided to shave myself with no help now my small hair is itching me and i wanna just idk… i just mad at myself so can you help me out. Thanks
Sam
Hi there,
There’s no right or wrong way to how your pubic hair should be. Some people want to experiment with their pubic hair to find what makes them feel comfortable. For example, some might feel like it feels more hygienic, or prefer how it looks. Some people share or trim their pubic hair for religious reasons. It’s also okay to not want to shave or trim your pubic hair.
Shaving can sometimes cause ingrown hairs or a rash where you may feel itchy after a day or so. Usually this will clear on its own, it will help to keep the area you have shaved clean and dry.
It’s important to be cautious if you’re shaving your pubic hair. Pubic hair can be thicker and the skin around the scrotum is sensitive, so it’s important to take care so not to hurt yourself. Shaving in a shower or bath with warm water can help prepare your skin, try to take your time and not press too hard.
Try not to put pressure on yourself, or feel like you need to listen to what other people tell you. Some people might try to push unrealistic expectations for your body to look or be a certain way. It’s always okay to be you and know you don’t have to change how you look unless it’s something you actually want.
We are here to support you.
Take care,
Sam
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