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Math struggles

throughout my life ive struggled with maths when i was younger (around year 3) i thought i just needed a little extra help to understand the subject better however in year 5 a teacher noticed how i was struggling and i was giving extra support and screening tests, i found out i had number dyspraxia ( i think its called dyscalculia) and in year 5-6 i was working at a year 3-4 level maths i was then put on the SEN register because of this condition and i didnt do my Math SATS because of it. I was getting quite a lot of help in primary but however since ive started secondary im still on the SEN register and im in bottom set but im really struggling i just cant do things as quickly as others so i never really get a chance to figure most things out like for an example when the teacher puts a starter on the board with some questions i might get the first question done but then everyone else is done and the teacher puts the answers up, another thing im struggling with is just understanding the topics we are learning about themselves , i tell the teacher but i dont think im getting the support i need and i end up feeling really stressed it would be good if i could get come advice please

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Hi there,

Finding maths difficult, especially with a learning disability like dyscalculia, can feel frustrating and stressful when you’re not getting the help you need. You’re not alone in this, and it’s okay to ask for support again when things aren’t working.

Dyscalculia can make it harder to understand numbers, patterns, and problem-solving. Being given extra time, different teaching approaches, or support can help people learn best and succeed. Whether you’re on the Special Educational Needs (SEN) register or not, if the school hasn’t got the right support in place then you have the right to ask for it again.

Talking to the school’s SEN Coordinator or a trusted teacher about how you’re feeling and what’s not working is always an option. Sometimes having a review meeting or asking for specific adjustments can help. You could ask for things like a new learning plan, or more time to do your work.

There is more information on Childline’s website on dyslexia and learning disability. Talking to other young people on the message boards who have similar experiences can also help to not feel as alone, as well as to give ideas of how to ask for the support you deserve at school.

Speaking to a Childline counsellor when things feel overwhelming is always an option too. Childline are here to help, and a counsellor can help to figure out what to say or how to ask for help again at school.

Take care,

Sam

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