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Hi there,
Taking responsibility for our actions is the right thing to do, but this can be really difficult. It can be embarrassing but it can also be a relief. If we tell a lie it can often need other lies to cover it up. Before we know it, there are too many lies to keep track of. You seem to know that the best option is to talk to your guidance teacher, and I agree with you.
Youre worried about what you can say to your guidance teacher, but youve already told me you didnt mean for this to happen and youre really sorry. It seems to me youve got the beginning of what you could say to your teacher right there.
I also think you could be truthful with your teacher about why you didnt give her the correct phone number for mum. It sounds like you felt panicked about mum finding out and maybe your teacher will understand. Telling your teacher might be hard, but try and imagine how relieved you might feel afterwards when you dont have to worry about it anymore.
You havent said why youve never liked going to registration. If theres something going on there that your guidance teacher should know about, this might be the time to talk about that too.
Youve said something wise in your letter. You say that lying about little things can turn into a big thing. I think this is true. I know this can happen and it doesnt mean youre crazy. Perhaps a better way to look at it is that you are human, we all make mistakes and you can learn from this experience.
ChildLine is here to help if you want to talk to a counsellor about what you can say to your guidance teacher. Sometimes practising what you might say can help build up your confidence. We also can talk to you about whether it might be good to talk to your mum about whats happened, if thats something that starts to worry you.
Take care,
Sam
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