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Hello Sam,

I am a 14 year old male and ever since I was young I have always wanted to be a police officer. However when I was 12 and 13 I was in trouble with the police but never charged, warned etc. I am scared that when I want to be a officer in the future they won't let me and I really want some advice because I don't know if my future has been destroyed. Ever since my discharge from CAMHS, I have been attending youth clubs, done a sports leadership qualification (level one) and I aim to get very good GCSE results to prove to the police that I have changed. But I'm scared that my past actions won't let me be a officer. Please help

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Sam

Hi there,

We can all make mistakes, and sometimes this can lead to getting in trouble. It’s natural to feel worried about the future, but getting in trouble with the police doesn’t mean your career will always be affected.

When someone applies to be a police officer, the police will do a vetting process. This is when they check someone is suitable. These checks can include someone’s physical health, social media profiles, and whether their family and friends have criminal convictions. The police will also check whether someone has been arrested, convicted, or cautioned.

Being in trouble with the police doesn’t automatically mean you won’t be able to become a police officer, especially when you haven’t been convicted. You can find out more about that here.

Police know that just because you’ve been in trouble before, you can still change and be a good police officer in the future. If you do apply, it’s important to be open and honest about any interactions you’ve had before.

It’s great to think about your future and your career. It can feel scary when you’re uncertain about what will happen, but there’s lots of support there to help. Lots of schools will have a careers advisor to help you, you can also get support from the National Careers Service.

Everyone can go through difficult situations and times, but with the right support things can change. Remember, your past doesn’t have to define your future.

Take care,

Sam

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