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Hi there,
Thank you for having the courage to write to me. There could be lots of reasons why you see unusual things happening to your private parts it might be that its something normal that just seems unusual to you. Whatever it is, getting medical advice is whats important.
As it seems like your mum is not taking your concerns seriously, you might need to arrange to see a doctor yourself or maybe go with a friend.
It's wrong for your mum to call you horrible names. This is emotional abuse. Perhaps you could think about talking to her about how you feel when she laughs or walks away from you. And let her know you'd like her help. If she doesn't listen, you could think of talking to another adult you trust. You deserve to get support.
If you'd like to speak to a counsellor we can help you work out what you want to say and how to say it.
A sexually transmitted infection (STI) is a kind of disease passed from one person to another through unprotected sexual contact. There are other medical problems that affect your private parts, and the only way to find out whats wrong is to see a doctor.
If youre worried that you might have and STI, its important you get checked out as soon as possible. To get tested for STIs you can go to your doctor or you can go to your nearest sexual health (GUM) clinic some of these are confidential and are just for young people, like Brook.
If you do have sex, its important to look after your sexual health and find out about contraception to protect you from getting pregnant and from sexually transmitted infections.
I hope this helps. Remember you can contact us any time. We're here for you.
Take care,
Sam
You can talk privately to a counsellor online or call 0800 1111 for free.
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