i recently just got myself a digital c-card from my local council online, and i know the risks of sex and stuff and i just wanna be safe.
i know so many places that offer free condoms as apart of the c-card, my local pharmacy, Boots, a youth centre near me but I want to know what happens when you go to get them. i feel embarrassed that they will be judging me or that they'll make a giant fuss and like the whole shop will know that i just got some condoms.. what is it like usually?
Sam
Hi there,
It’s great that you're taking steps to make sure you’re using contraception if you’re sexually active. C-Card is a scheme that’s available in lots of areas, it offers free contraception, including things like condoms and dental dams, as well as advice and information. Different areas will have different services available, but you should never feel judged using them.
It can sometimes feel a little embarrassing getting contraception, especially for the first time. It can help to remember that the people you’ll see are used to supporting young people and will know you might be feeling nervous. They’re trained to support and advise you without judgement and won’t want to make a fuss or call attention to you.
When you go to collect condoms, it will usually be discreet. In places like pharmacies, condoms are often kept in a section where you can pick them up and go to the counter without anyone really noticing. If you’re under 16 you may need to register in person and have a quick chat the first time you collect condoms. This will be just to check that you know how to use them but will be discreet as well.
Depending on your area and how old you are, you may be able to use a self-service area or even order them online. At youth centres, you can often get packs of condoms in a small, plain bag so it’s easy to take them without feeling awkward.
We’ve got lots of information to help you decide what’s best for you when thinking about contraception. If you’re ever worried about being sexually active, or want to talk about what’s happening, you can always speak to a Childline counsellor.
Take care,
Sam
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