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Message from Sam...  Ask Sam

Something many people worry about is the way they look. How we feel about ourselves can have a big impact on our day to day lives – I’d be really interested to hear how your own self-image affects you.
Remember that although I read every letter, I can only answer a few each week

Take care,
Sam

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I don't know

I don't know

hi sam, ...
im 13 and recently i have been having really bad problems with the way I look. I just dont like the way I look and its got to a point that i cant look in a mirror...

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Help!

Help3

I am 15...I am pregnant about 6 weeks. I want to keep my baby but my boyfriend says he's not ready and he will leave me If I don't have an abortion but he also said he will still be...

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Should I tell anyone?

Should i tell anyone

My best frend got raped and she told me not 2 tell anyone.. shud i keep it a secret or tell someone??

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How I feel

How I feel

So, I'm feeling upset at home. I like school because I get to see my friends. Home is boring. When I'm at home, I''m basically just on my phone....
I'm really upset and just listen to sad songs because I...

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Hair

Hair

I'm a 16 year old girl, and last year I cut my hair very short, pixie cut, just before Christmas. I loved it and i still love it. I get loads of compliments from girls and I feel different, good...

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Judging

Judging

People are judging and bullying me about my size and boobs

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Feeling different

Feeling different

Dear Sam,...

I have a condition called autism. Recently it has been making me feel more different than usual. I want to fit in with friends, but often feel that I can't because of my autism. I feel like I...

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I feel so fat

I feel so fat

i feel so fat and ugly, and im too scared to go out incase i get judged. i hate my body. some girl has already told me how fat i am. i just i dont know. im scared feeling like...

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Worried

Worried

Hi Sam I'm feeling a little bit worried at the moment because on bonfire night last year my mum car window got smashed and I feel like I need to talk about it to someone but I don't think my mum...

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