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Something on your mind? Ask Sam is ChildLine’s problem page where you can read letters from other young people. You can also ask for advice yourself and Sam might choose your letter to include below.

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Message from Sam...  Ask Sam

Summer can mean a long break from school or college – for some people this can mean it’s time to do other things like working. I’d be interested to hear about people’s experiences with working over the summer and how they find having lots of time off school.

Remember although I read every single letter, I can only respond to a few each week.

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Sibling death I

Sibling death I

I can't seem to find much on this so I didn't know where else to go. When I was 12, my 15 year old sister died unexpectedly. She was disabled but the reason she died had nothing to do with...

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Break up but I still want him back

Break up but I still want him back

I have broken up with my boyfriend because I am getting bullied and I had no one to talk to and I really trusted him and I still have feelings for him and I think he still has feelings for...

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Will My Scars Hurt My Career As a Volunteer?

Will My Scars Hurt My Career As a Volunteer?

I've been recently having a really hard time with my self-harm. I have an addiction, there's no saying "No" to that. But, the problem is, when I get upset about something, I have urges to self-harm. This is most likely...

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My teachers bully me

My teachers bully me

Help I get bullied by the behavioural department as they are always dragging me out of lessons for things I haven't even done and have no evidence. There is a teacher at my school who agrees with what I say....

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Acceptance

Acceptance

Hi,My Mum can't accept that my dream career is a model she keeps forcing me to be a lawyer,if I tell her that my dream job is a model she just compares me to other kids saying their better than...

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porn

porn

Please don't judge me but I'm 11 and addicted to porn. I am so ashamed of this horrible horrible addiction and I really want to stop but it’s difficult. Please help! I've got no one to tell as I'm too...

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I'm feeling unwanted!

I'm feeling unwanted!

Um hi........
These past few months I've been feeling like no one even cares about me never mind how I feel. My friends are going off with their friends then I'm left alone. Sometimes I feel that I shouldn't say...

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Self-harm

Self-harm

How do I find out what triggers me to self harm?

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