hi, so im D and in Y9 at school.
i currently am and have been in, since about half way through Y7 in a friendship group of about 7 girls. i would say we are pretty close tho obviously we have argued in the past. however (and this has been pointed out to me in the past but ive struggled to change it) a few days ago they basically said i was kind of just tagging along and bringing the group down with my negative attitude. Although they said they are happy for me to change if i iddentify the problem and 'get some help' and change my attitude and actully be in the group not on the outside, then they are happy for me to stay. (they didnt say this in a rude way at all by the way)
i however was kind of shocked as i didnt realise i was being so negative and how badly it was affecting them, so im really scared im going to lose them as they are more or less my only friends and i really struggle with making and, more so keeping friends.
does anyone have any ideas on how i could have a more postive mindset and possibly get closer to my friends or is it too late to save this friendship.
(i always thought they were my friends and thought of me the same way so im not sure :/ )
please if you have any advice, help as im feeling really stuck.