Hello I am a girl 11 and i am wondering if anyone has any advice on how to make boys smile or attract them (I know this sounds really wierd). But you see when i was in primarys school i guess i was quite popular - many had many friends girls and boys and quite a few boys had a crush on me (which i didn‘t really like).

During primary school i was really good friends with two boys one who i liked as a friend and have known since i was 4 (lets call him a) and one who i had and sort of still have a crsh on ( lets call him b). I had. crush on hime through year 5 and 6, in october 2019 i was in year 6 and the boy who i had a crsh on (b) asked me out. Well sort of - it was a Thursday so i went to breakfast club the close friend (a)and this other boy who i never really liked was there as well as one of my good friends.

They told me that this boy (b) was going to ask me out later that day and that they were talking about it in assembly, I rembered everyone giving me wierd looks the day before and i sort of new he liked me back.

I told them i didnt like him because i didn’t want gossip, and to this day i regret it. In the end the boy who i didnt like told him that i didnt like hi, and i think this is as he had a crush on me.

A few months later, we fell into lockdown and i was going in as a keworkers child with boy a. I’m now in secondary and i go to an all girls school, but id like to know wether i was stupid to say i didnt like him? Wether i should message boy b? just some advice of any kind all of us go to different secondary schools now but i still have boy bs phone number, should i message him? am i silly to still like him? Im sorry for being wierd i just am quite a shy person if anyone could feply then Thank You I just wanted a boys opinion.

L x