Lots of you talk to us about wanting to know if something that is happening is right or wrong, Lots of different things can happen that you might not be sure if they are ok, if they should be happening, if it’s what other young people go through or if it is a part of “normal” life and relationships.
Things like different types of abuse, how someone like a friend, parent or partner acts and treats you or others, worries about where you live. Or what you see happening to a friend or someone at home.
We always want to make sure that we understand as much as we can about the situations you might be in. And about what things you look for when you want to find answers.
For example, if you were looking to find out if something was ok or not, would “is it normal” be how you asked a question or what you used to search online for more info?
Examples might be “is it normal to feel scared of your parents” or “is it normal for them to hurt me if we’re in love”?
Would “is it right” be something you’d use e.g. “is it right for best mates to pressure you”?
We’d love to know if “is it normal” and “is it right” are phrases you’d maybe use if you were searching for answers about what you or someone else is dealing with.
And you can also tell us the kinds of words and sentences you’d maybe search for or post about instead. As well as different situations you want the answer to know if it’s something that‘s happening is “normal”.