so basically, this was a few years ago (im almost 16) and i was out with my family for a meal and my mums parents were there (my grandma and grandad). i was sat slightly opposite my grandad and he kept making these hand gestures towards me which i found really uncomfortable. he was only doing them to me (i was the only girl, i have 2 brothers). he was making heart shapes and then putting his finger to his lips like he was saying ‘dont tell anyone’. i was so uncomfortable that i hardly ate any of my food and time was just dragging on. as soon as we were ready to leave when we got to the car (my grandparents went in their own car) i told my mum everything and she didnt say much. we havent seen my grandad since but my grandma is still with him and she visits us basically every week. i love my grandma but i cant bear to even look at my grandads face in family photos. i think about this a lot recently and i dont know what to do. is this sexual harassment? or should i just carry on with my sad little life and hope i never see him again.
thanks for reading.