I don't know if this really counts as 'sexual abuse' but I'm going to say it is. My grandad, who I live with, will often make comments about my underwear and bras when I have to take them out of the wash. He'll also sometimes hit my butt or ask to see my underwear and bras if ive recently brought new ones. I don't know what to do about this because I love him as a grandad but I hate hearing comments like this. Please help me, I'm only 14 and hate having my 65+ year old grandad making these comments.