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Hello,
Counsellors can be really powerful ways to get support, particularly if you find someone you feel comfortable talking to. Its important to agree with your counsellor what the limits and rules are, so that things are clear. Whatever happens, the more you tell them the better theyll be able to help.
Its difficult to say exactly what would happen, but its okay to ask your counsellor about confidentiality first and who they might tell if theyre worried about you. You dont have to say everything at once and this might help you to decide how much youd like to talk about to begin with.
If youre feeling worried about your counsellor passing on what you say you could even mention this to them to help them understand. You can find out more about talking about your mental health with a GP. Some of this may be different to talking to a counsellor.
ChildLine confidentiality is different from school and other organisations. A school counsellor, for example would usually have to inform your parent or carer if they thought you were doing anything to harm yourself.
ChildLine counsellors talk to young people about suicidal thoughts and self-harm and their safety is always important. If youre feeling suicidal but can show us that youre not seriously considering acting on these thoughts we wouldnt break confidentiality. You can read more about our confidentiality promise before talking.
If you dont feel ready to talk to your counsellor about some things you could talk to a ChildLine counsellor. They can help you talk about how you feel and even help you to think what you could say to your counsellor. You can ask our counsellors anything that you want to help you feel safe talking to them.
Take care,
Sam
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