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Hi there,
Thanks for your letter.
It sounds like you have built a really positive, trusting relationship with your maths teacher and its good to hear you have his support. It sounds like people around you are reading more into the relationship than there really is. It could be very difficult for you to cope with the pressure from your girlfriend and others in your year group. I can hear that the way the people around you are reacting is having a big impact on you, making you feel down and worrying about what it might be like for you without your maths teachers support.
Its not okay for anyone to make judgements about your relationships or to pressure you to change those relationships. Finding someone you can really trust to talk to is very valuable and I can hear that he has helped you to cope with life at home.
Im wondering whether there could be a way to explain to your girlfriend how important it is to you that you have your maths teachers support in your life. At the moment, it feels like there is nobody else supporting you in this way.
You could also think about talking to your maths teacher about whats been happening. It could be useful for him to be aware if people are threatening to report him and he might have some ideas of the best way to deal with this. Perhaps your girlfriend could sit down with you and your maths teacher, so she can hear what things are like from his point of view as well.
Youve shown a lot of courage to write your letter to me and I want you to know that you can always turn to ChildLine for support. The counsellors are always there to listen and support you. You can speak to a counsellor by phoning free on 0800 1111, by 1-2-1 chat which is like instant messaging or by email, whichever feels most comfortable for you. I hope you find this letter helpful.
Take care,
Sam
You can talk privately to a counsellor online or call 0800 1111 for free.
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