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Anyone can write in with their problem. I respond to a few letters each week. You can also read my advice to people who have similar problems to you. 

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latest letters

I keep telling lies

hey sam for a really long time ive been telling lies. i lie to my teachers and tell them i understand or when called ...

School and me

First day back at school was horrible people laughed at me threw the hallways and called me fat. ive cut myself befor...

Homelessness

Ive been homeless since I was 15. I'm now 18. I've been stayin on sofas and sometimes on park benches or in the town ...

My mum always hits me

Dear Sam ​ My mum always hits me even when its a sall thing like i have forgotten to wash my face, she pulls my hair ...

I have been having flashbacks

hi, ive been having flashbacks recently to all the bad things that have happened in my like, like my dad dying, and b...

Pressure about doing piano

Hi Sam i have been doing piano for a couple of years now but I am really bord of it and music isn't really my passion...

Message from Sam

Food is a part of life for us every day, but for some people this is a real problem. I’d be really interested to hear from you if you’re having problems with eating or your body image.

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What if I have cancer?

Hi. My Mum died in 2008 of breast cancer. I have heard rumors that it could have been passed onto me. I am just worri...

Trans.

Hi Sam. i am a 13 year old girl, and there's not much to say really. I want to be a boy, when I was a bit younger ab...

Transgender in the ATC

Hey Sam, I'm a 14 year old transgender (ftm) and also an air cadet. I'm worried about how to come out to my squadron ...

I think I'm Transgender

Hey Sam, I have a bit of a problem. I think I'm Transgender and have done for over three months now. I have posted o...

Being in the 91 percentile

Dear Sam, I dont know who else feels like this, but the one person I'd really like to please is my mum. She always pu...

Judging

People are judging and bullying me about my size and boobs

Make up

Dear Sam,I feel I have to wear make up to school because everyone else is but we are only in year 6 please help I don...

Terrorists

Due to the attack in Paris I am scared on how people think I look and the colour of my skin!!!!

i need money for some clothes

hi sam i need money for some a school trip i am struggling to get some as my mom is short on money and she needs the ...

does your appearence matter

Do you think your appearence matter? I don't, I don't beacause I like to be different from the others. People at my s...

MAKE UP!!

Hello Sam, Recently lots of people in my class have started wearing make up. I like the idea of it but my parents an...

strange addiction

i've started this really weird addiction and i can't stop it! it is driving me crazy, the problem is that i keep pick...

goth/emo

My friends used to all like me, but now the run around and shout emo and goth at me because the way i dress. I've tol...

Size

MY FRIENDS KEEP ON SAYING THAT I'M OVER DEVELOPED AND THATS WHY MY BOYFRIEND LIKES ME AND NOW I'VE FORCED MYSELF TO...

want to be a goth...

Okay,so I'm really into black, and goth stuff, but I'm really worried people will bully me for it. My mum is also say...

Hair

I'm a 16 year old girl, and last year I cut my hair very short, pixie cut, just before Christmas. I loved it and i st...

Looks

Hi! I at school i sometimes get picked on about my facial looks. People say i have a big nose and am ugly. Others say...

Everyone is perfect except me

Hey,i'm 14 and i love my friends more than anything, they're all perfect!and thats sometimes what gets me down.. They...

I want to be emo…

I'm 14 and I've wanted to be an emo/goth for about 3 years now, but my mum is strong catholic and is strongly against...

group of boys

im not that rich im just 11 years old. It started in year 5 when i was 10 .My mum has'nt got alot of money.she has'nt...