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Hi there,
This is a question a lot of young people ask. If you are 16, if you can prove you have somewhere safe to live, its unlikely the police will make you return home.
I can see how unhappy you are about the abuse youre going through at home. Youve got the right to feel safe at home and any time you feel unsafe or in any danger you can contact the police for help. If you felt unsure about doing this then you can talk about it with a ChildLine counsellor who can help you decide what to do.
When thinking of moving out one big consideration is how youll be able to take care of the everyday expenses. For example, food, clothes, bills and all the other expenses involved.
You wont be able to take out a rental agreement until you are 18, as this is a legal contract. But perhaps your local council housing department can advise on sheltered accommodation in your area. There may be private housing associations that can help you also its important to know about your rights. Perhaps your doctor could help you as they have already mentioned your mental health.
An alternative to living alone is to think about living with another family member such as a grandparent, aunt or uncle. This may work out to be cheaper and less lonely and you will be with people you have known a long time.
Talking things through with a counsellor may help you to decide what is best for you. You can call or talk directly on a 1-2-1 chat. You will be able to explore all the options available to you. You could also have a look on Shelter's website.
Take care,
Sam
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