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Hi there,
Thanks for your letter.
It's very positive that youve started to focus on your studies - you should be really proud of yourself.
It seems quite frustrating for you to have people around you putting you down and Im glad you felt able to tell me about it.
When people say negative, mean or nasty things to someone over and over again it can make that person start to wonder if its true. It can also affect their confidence and self-esteem. Teachers have a responsibility to help and support pupils. They should want you to do well and respect your decision to work hard.
Im glad to hear that things in your life are finally good. Your positive attitude should really help you with your revision. I can hear that you would like the people around you to start being more supportive of the changes youve made.
Sometimes its hard for people to know how their words and comments are affecting you unless you explain to them. Youve asked how you can change your teachers' view to make them understand how serious you are. It sounds like you have made a great start already by showing up on time and doing all your work. You might want to think about talking to your teachers to explain what the rest of this year means to you and how their views are making you feel.
Its unfair for your teachers to judge you on past behaviour or treat you any differently to anyone else.
If things dont change you might want to think about speaking to your head of year or an adult that you trust who can help you speak to your school.
Youre welcome to talk to a ChildLine counsellor about how you are feeling and whats been going on at any time. You can contact them by logging on for a 1-2-1 chat or by calling them on 0800 1111 (this is a free number and it wont show up on your bill).
Best of luck with your exams,
Sam
You can talk privately to a counsellor online or call 0800 1111 for free.
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