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Anyone can write in with their problem. I respond to a few letters each week. You can also read my advice to people who have similar problems to you. 

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  • Sam's replies are public, never private, so others can read them
  • Sam will remove personal info from your letter to keep it anonymous
  • if yours is chosen, you'll see it under one of the topics below
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latest letters

Long distance/online

this is about a boy i met online through a friend from my school and its been 3 months since we met online and we’ve ...

Homosexuality

I come from an asian background, a very traditional one. And, with my luck, my family is very homophobic and don‘t to...

Sport and confidence

Hi Sam I wanted to write to you as im a bit upset with sport as I go to a club and I dont really fit in as I get lauf...

Moved house to a new location

Ive just moved home with my family to a completely new area we have been here for around 3 weeks now and even though ...

Moods.

Hi Sam. I’ve been getting incredibly snappy for my age and I feel like my parents absolutely hate me for it. But I ca...

Abortion

Hi sam, I’ve just gone through an abortion and the after feeling is unreal I’m feeling so down and upset about everyt...

Unsafe at school

I no longer feel safe in school, since there is a boy who is perving on girls, he crawls around trying to look up the...

Message from Sam

I often have a theme that I ask people to write in about but remember that you can still write to me about anything as well. I also want to remind everyone that of the many letters I receive each week I choose just a few to answer on my page. I'm sorry if I don't answer your letter but there is probably a similar letter that I've answered before which might help. If you definitely want a response you can always talk to one of our counsellors.

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Moving House

Hi Sam,My parents have been separated for about six years now and we have an arrangement that I have to stay at each ...

Family

Hi Sam my mum and dad have split up about three years so and I haven't seen my dad in two years he just said he was g...

Divorce

Hi Sam, I am in desperate need of advice, my mum & step dad have been fighting on & off for a year now but o...

Divorced parents

My mum and dad divorced when I was 4, and I'm now 14 so they've been separated for a good 10 years. Anyway when I was...

My family

Hi Sam,It was a couple of months ago my parents broke up and my dad moved out it was one of the hardest things ever t...

Got a job

My parents split up a while back, but havent sorted out the money yet. I live with my disabled mum, and her benefits ...

Seperation

My Parents have recently seperated and i have found this really hard. My grades have gone down loads aswell. As we ar...

parents are getting divorced

hi sam i have a question for you. can you help me please cause my mum and dad are constonaly aruging and they are dra...

I'm really worried

My dad has just broke up with my mum and I'm just speechless  my mum keeps crying and saying its not my fault, every ...

Step Mum

Dear Sam,My dad got married recently and I don't know how to feel about it,because my dad's wife is a nice woman and ...

Parents

My Mum and Dad have been split for 1 year now and it herts more than anything! Though every kid wants their parents t...

my Dad

hello sam, my parents have split up since i was in year 1 and im in year 7 now i was wondering what rights i have to ...

My parents

my parents have split and now i feel like my life is in shambles.The court orderd that i see my dad every 2 weeks but...

making my mum upset

well my mum and dad have spilt up and i am in a pickle all the things i been through and thing make me sad i do talk ...

help!

my mum and dad split up in the summer after years of constant fight and my dad constantly drinking,he usually drunk w...

Help??

Hi sam. My parents split up in december and my brother almost comitted. I remember the night like it was yesturday! M...

Family

Hi Sam. It's been going on for quite a long time now. My parents are still together but don't have feelings for each...

stuff:P

This may not seem as important as a lot of other people because my issue isnt as bad as others. Basically, my mum and...