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Hi there,
Thanks for writing to me and telling me about whats going on. Seeing people we care about get hurt by others is really upsetting and its understandable that you feel scared. Youre doing the right thing getting support so well done for getting in touch.
Remember that if at any time you feel like your sister and niece are in danger its ok to call 999 so that the police can go and make sure theyre safe.
Your sisters boyfriend has no right to hurt her, or to make her smoke and take drugs and hes wrong to do this. Whats happening to your sister and your niece could be described as Domestic violence.
You dont mention whether anyone else in the family knows about whats happening. If they dont, you could think about whether theres an adult that you trust who you could tell, so that you can work with them to think about the best ways to support your sister and niece. One possibility is to contact the NSPCC helpline on 0808 800 5000 to report the concerns for your niece. The helpline staff check out any worries people have about children and young people. They are open 24 hours a day and people who call dont have to give their names.
If there isnt anyone in the family, another option would be to approach someone at your school or college, like a teacher or mentor that you get on well with. You could explain your worries to them and figure out what to do next.
Its not easy to know that somone you care about is being hurt so its important that you continue to get support too. ChildLine are always here to listen if you want to talk more about things. You can contact a counsellor online for a 1-2-1 chat, or give us a ring on 0800 1111.
Take care,
Sam
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