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Hi there,
Thanks so much for writing to me about this.
You are upset about they way your Mum is treating you. Im concerned that your Mum is treating you in this way and its not alright for her to be this way towards you. What youre describing sounds like emotional abuse and its not your fault that its happening. Nobody has the right to treat anyone in that way, and it can be hard to understand as well as hard to live with. I noticed that you said that your Dad is always working but sometimes he hears whats happening. For some people writing a note to an adult who they trust (a parent or relative) about whats going on and how its making you feel, can be an important step in letting someone know about what is happening and how you feel.
Im also really concerned that youre sometimes feeling like you wish your life was over. When youre feeling this way, its really important to get support. Youve done really well to contact me and Im wondering how youd feeling about speaking to a ChildLine counsellor about what youre going through. Counsellors can help you to explore your feelings and also support you in thinking of ideas about things that might help.
You explained that you really like Christmas and it sounds as though it is normally a special time of year for you. How do you think itd feel to talk to your family about what the plans are for Christmas? ChildLine is open every day of the year, so remember that if you need to talk to someone on Christmas Day (as well as any other day) youre welcome to get in touch through the 1-2-1 chat service and somebody can be there to listen.
Thanks again for taking the time to tell me about whats happening at home.
Take care,
Sam
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