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Hi there,
Suicidal feelings can be frightening and painful for the person who is experiencing them. It's also scary for their families. If youre worried that a parent or family member is feeling suicidal then its important to let someone know so you can get help.
People can often have suicidal thoughts when they feel theres no other way out of a situation. And some people can actually go as far as looking at how they might be able to do this. This doesnt always mean that they will carry this out, but it does show that they may need some help to stay safe. If you ever think someone may be in danger of hurting themselves, call 999 for help.
If someone feels suicidal it is really important that they have someone they can talk to about how they are feeling. It can be really complicated. And its important to know that it's not usually about someone talking them out of it. Often someone needs more support than you might be able to give them yourself.
If you want to talk to your mum about this, then maybe you could start by leaving some leaflets or information where she can find them. Or you could send your mum a text with the information if you feel comfortable with this. If she can find the courage to ask, there is help available to her.
You could encourage her to ring the Samaritans by calling 116 123, contact her GP, call NHS 111 or go into the Accident and Emergency (A&E) department at your local hospital.
If you have a family member who wont contact anyone then you can call the Samaritans yourself and ask them to get in touch with the person. The Samaritans wouldn't have to say that it was you who asked them to call the person. They wont be able to tell you what they have discussed with them, but will let you know if they have made contact.
Its really important that you can get support with your feelings too - you can talk to a counsellor or call on 0800 1111. You dont have to go through this alone. Were here to listen and support with this and anything else going on for you.
Take care,
Sam
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