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Hi there,
The changes we notice as we go through puberty can feel really embarrassing when we first experience them. But actually, they are changes that show that we are healthy and developing as we should. Its something that everyone goes through. Like anything thats new, puberty can feel really scary until we get used to the changes it brings.
Its likely that your mum will be aware that you are going to start your periods soon, as most girls start their periods between the ages of around 10 and 16. Its likely to be something she will be expecting. Its also something shell have experienced too. You dont mention how well you get on with your mum, but it can still feel confusing to know where to start. Planning how you might talk to someone you trust can help you to feel more confident about bringing the subject up.
Talking through your worries can really help. Whether you feel able to talk to your mum or not, there will always be someone here at ChildLine to listen. Puberty can feel embarrassing to talk about, but the message boards are a private place for young people to talk about their worries, and you will see that lots of girls talk about their periods here. You can also talk privately with a ChildLine counsellor.
Take care,
Sam
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