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Hi there,
It can help to have some support when you start your period. It's really helpful if somebody can give you practical advice, like where to get pads and how to use them. It's good if someone can also give you emotional support with the changes youre going through. From what youve said, you dont feel as though you can tell your sister about it because shes busy preparing for the baby. If you have a good relationship with her, it could still be a good idea to speak to her and let her know whats happening for you. If its hard to find a moment to speak face-to-face, perhaps you could think about writing something to her, so she can read it in her own time.
If youre sure that your sister is too busy, its a good idea to think about who else might be able to be there for you. This could be a teacher or a doctor or somebody else in your life that you trust. Remember that you can also talk things through with a ChildLine counsellor. You can talk to them about periods and about your feelings about your sisters baby. I also noticed that you said that your parents have died. If youd like to talk more about that with somebody, counsellors can always be there to listen. You can also find support for coping with the death of loved ones on Hope Agains website.
When you get your period, its good to be prepared and have pads or tampons ready to use. I can hear that there are other things that youd like to talk to somebody about. Youre welcome to ask counsellors any questions you have about them.
Its really good that you felt able to write to me about this.
Take care,
Sam
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