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Hi there,
Thanks for your message.
Taking trips away with school can be really exciting as you experience new things and build new relationships with people. During puberty its natural to start developing different feelings for people although it can sometimes feel confusing.
It might be a time when you start to think about having a boyfriend or girlfriend. You could have some questions about your sexual or gender identity or you might be struggling with some of the physical changes puberty brings. No matter how old you are, being in a relationship can be a big step and you dont have to do anything before youre ready.
Having someone you trust to talk to about all of these things can make it feel easier to cope. Chatting with your friends can be a way to feel like you're not alone with your thoughts and experiences. Some people might prefer to talk to an adult in their lives like a parent or a teacher who will have experienced puberty already. The ChildLine counsellors are always there to listen and support you to think about what's best.
It could be important to remember that everyone goes through puberty in their lives. It is a very individual experience yet there are common changes or experiences that lots of people will have. Lots of young people have shared their experiences of puberty on the message boards so it might feel useful to have a look around there.
Take care,
Sam
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