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i don't if i am pregnant

hi sam

i didn't even had sex but i think i am pregnant? i don't know. i can tell my parents. n i can go to do a pregnant go to do a pregnant test. i had never had sex never n i don't even have a boyfriend. i use to take my finger i put it in my .... but it never touch me inside. i dream i pregnant one night n want i woke up my bell did not go down it had a litter size. its been 4 month i have this problem. i got me period at the 21 of august it was the frist time i got my period n now i did not get it in september ? wat happening to me plz help me? i don't want to stop school. i do gud in school i got 84.9 when i worte test plz hepl me i need help plz answer me soon

thank uwhat should i do

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Hi there,

It is only possible to become pregnant if there is a way that sperm could have entered your vagina. You couldn’t become pregnant from touching your own genital area, unless you had semen on your hands – say, from touching a boy’s penis.

When you first start your periods they may not be very regular, so you may have one and then not have another one for a few months. That’s normal and nothing to worry about.

If you think there is a way that you might have become pregnant, the best thing to do is to take a pregnancy test to find out for sure. You can get them  free from your GP or local sexual health clinic. You can find out more about this on the Brook website or by talking to a ChildLine counsellor. We are always here for you if you are worried about anything. You can call on 0800 1111, send an email or log on for a 1-2-1 chat.

Take care,

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