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Something on your mind? Or need some support?

Anyone can write in with their problem. I respond to a few letters each week. You can also read my advice to people who have similar problems to you.

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You can ask me about anything you want, there's nothing too big or small. I read every single letter but I can only answer a few each week. My replies are published here on my page.

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What you need to know:

  • Sam reads every letter, but can only respond to a few each week
  • Sam's replies are public, never private, so others can read them
  • Sam will remove personal info from your letter to keep it anonymous
  • if yours is chosen, you'll see it under one of the topics below
  • if you need support now or want to talk privately, contact a Childline counsellor.

latest letters

Helping my friend

Hi Sam, im not sure if you can help but one of my friends has been sh-ing for a while but she told me she stopped but...

I’ve been struggling

​Hi sam, i’m 12 years old. i was wondering how to overcome suicidal thoughts and urges to self-harm? i am in a loving...

Ear defenders

Hi I am in year 9 and I have just finished my first week at school in the second term. I feel like now it is a perfec...

Private area troubles

hi sam im tom! im a 13 year old boy and i didnt think i had anything wrong with me when i was younger but after looki...

Everyone is scared of me

I dont even know how to say this, but my dad is in jail for killing my granddad (his dad]. this is something i have o...

Depression and Coping

hi sam, sometimes i feel my emotions intensely and i never know how to cope. it can get really tough sometimes becaus...

Chronic Illness

Hi Sam. I am 12 years old and recently I found out that I have a chronic illness called Crohns Disease. It's not term...

Message from Sam

You can write to me about anything you want and I read every single message sent. I can only reply to a few each week and I always do this in public on my page. I’m sorry if I don’t answer your letter but it’s likely there are others just like it that I have answered before. If you want a definite response or need support then talking to a Childline counsellor is the best way to do that.

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the riots

im really scred of the news about all the riots. i dont know what to do. all the advice i find online tells me to jus...

fear of being kidnapped

hi sam, i'm writing to you to tell you of my recent fear of being kidnapped or abducted. at night i can't sleep and t...

Court and Councelling

Hi Sam, In October 2020.. so quite a while ago, I reported that I had been sexually abused/ molested frequently in a ...

Scared of the world

Dear sam, I have recently been worrying about because of all the crime and killing that has been going on. I heard ab...

Racism towards Asians

Hello :) i have experience racism a lot in England. i have visit Chinese shop and people have cal me “ling ling” “cor...