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Something on your mind? Or need some support?

Anyone can write in with their problem. I respond to a few letters each week. You can also read my advice to people who have similar problems to you.

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What you need to know:

  • Sam reads every letter, but can only respond to a few each week
  • Sam's replies are public, never private, so others can read them
  • Sam will remove personal info from your letter to keep it anonymous
  • if yours is chosen, you'll see it under one of the topics below
  • if you need support now or want to talk privately, contact a counsellor for free on 0800 1111.

latest letters

I don’t know how to feel

I was raped by my partner of 4 years he was remanded for 4 months but was found not guilty at trial since then I was ...

Suicide in a game

Hi Sam, Recently I have been playing a video game and there is a character in it called Kate. She gets bullied and tr...

Young Carers

Hi Sam im a young carer and i have been getting very stressed and i at home i live with my mum and grandma. When i ge...

Body image

i feel really disgusting about my body and i am definitely not body positive can you help ?

Anxiety at school

hi sam. i have anxiety. my guidance teacher gave me a card that i show to my teachers and they would allow me to leav...

Masturbation

hi im 12 and i feel disgusting if i masterbate but i cant stop myself from doing this i watch porn sometimes but i fe...

Message from Sam

You can write to me about anything and I read every single letter, but I choose just a few to answer on my page each week. I’m sorry if I don’t answer your letter but I always try and write my response to help anyone with a similar problem, so there is probably a letter that I’ve answered before which might help. If you definitely want a response you can always talk to one of our counsellors and they will always be there.

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Bullys

I'm getting bullyed at school and online school 3 years  s help last year I was the weirdo at school so I played on ...

Anxiety

My mum and my grandmother used to be on the smoking and drinking scene and my dad says that I will turn out like them...

Bulling

im having some bulling issues and its not very nice where a girl has called me a fat b***h and put a pic of her with ...

Bullied

In your letter back to 'N' you didn't really explain HOW to prevent your brother from hurting you. I've told my paren...

Sexuality- thought to be gay

Hi Sam my name is J**** and I'm really scared to write this letter but it needs to come out I'm sick of it and I've e...

People

hi Sam, I've just started Senior School and all of my oldfriends from junior school have turned against me. They pus...

Bullying

Dear Sam, i have this group of friends who find it halerious to laugh at me because they donot understand what i am s...

Gangs

i use to be friend with one of the people in this gang and now she shouting at me and so are they every time i go in ...

Help!

i have just started high school and some bullies keep picking on me they used to be my friends but now they bully me ...

Dear Sam...

i am 15 ever since i was 4 i have been bullied yes 11 years i am 16 next month i get bullied every day of my life it ...

Bullied because of bieber

Hey sam,um i am a massive bieber fan, i love justin so much but the only trouble is i get bullied so bad for it. I fe...

bullying

im being bullied and i dont know what to do noone knows ive not told them could u please give me soloutions xx

i dont know what to do?

Someone I used to be friends with says she has bulimia, social anxiety, and severe bipolar disorder but ive been look...

Please help me

Hello My name is L* and i am here for your advice about bullying. I have been bullied alot because of my special Need...

My parents are bullying me

My life is a mess, at school i get picked on because i am black and at home my mum always yells at me for very little...

I'm getting bullied

I'm getting bullied at school, That doesn't really bother Me.. But its getting out of hand now because I can hear the...

bulying and hitting

I have got no freinds evryones teasing me and i'm all alone ive been kicked 4 timesI dont know what to do i'm scared....

Suicidle

Hello, well I thought I'd give this a try because I don't know what else to do. I need to speak to someone. I'm being...

Why Me?

I am very scared on going to school because people made up a romour that i went out with this girl they don’t like, t...