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Hi there,
Thank you for sending your letter to me and Im concerned to hear about what is happening to you on this website. What this person is doing to you is wrong (and is a form of online sexual abuse) as nobody has the right to say things like this to you. I can hear that his behaviour is leaving you feeling really stressed but the good news is there are things you can do about it. Firstly, it is important that you keep a record of any messages that he sends you as this can be used as evidence of what is going on. I would also encourage you to stop responding to the messages he is sending you. Things like this can make us uncomfortable and sometimes afraid and it is important to know that you are not alone and that you have not done anything wrong.
It sounds like you have already tried reporting him to the moderators on the site but this does not seem to have helped. If you feel the moderators on the website are not doing enough to support you then you can get in touch with an organization called CEOP. CEOP provide general information about how to stay safe online and also give you the opportunity to report what is going on. I appreciate this can be a really difficult situation to be in and I would encourage you to come through and talk to ChildLine about what is going on; you can do this by giving us a ring on 0800 1111, requesting a 1-2-1 chat through the website or sending us an e-mail.
Take care,
Sam
You can talk privately to a counsellor online or call 0800 1111 for free.
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