Hi there,
Its never okay for anyone to deliberately hurt or injure another person. It's wrong for someone to slap, hit, punch, push or kick. It might seem like the person has reasons for what theyre doing or the person may say to you that they have reasons. But none of those reasons are acceptable, as no one has the right to hurt someone else.
It's important for you to know that this girl should not be treating in the way that you have described. The way that the girl is treating you is bullying, and bullying is always wrong. You deserve to be able to use the play area in a happy and comfortable way.
I hear that the girl treats everyone in a rude way. Sometimes, when we see or hear something happening a lot, it can feel like its a part of normal life. This can make it hard to understand that whats happening is wrong and to know what to do about it.
Im not sure if youve told an adult about whats been happening. Speaking to an adult about bullying can help to make things better for you. Also, speaking to an adult can help so that you do not have to go through things alone. And remember, our counsellors are always here to support you and you are welcome to get in touch anytime to talk about this and how its making you feel.
I hope this helps.
Sam
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