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School Stress

School Stress

 Hi, my friends older sister has recently died, and all the time now I am thinking about death. I am getting really scared and my friend is crying a lot.

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Sexual Harassment

Sexual Harassment

At school there is this boy who is always doing dirty stuff next to me. I'll give you some examples. I sit there and he makes sexual noises next to me, he always looks up my skirt & touches my...

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Stressed about school

Stressed about school

Hi sam,...
this is the second time I have wrote to you and I must say i appriciate your advice....
However, the whole school has found out about the sexual harrassment, and now, all the boys are doing the same...

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Why would a teacher lose their job of they had an affair with a student?

Why would a teacher lose their job of they had an affair with a student?

I know it's ok to do so if the student's over 18 but why is it illegal if they're under 18?...
I'm not asking why cant they have sex with them cos' that's illegal anyway if the student's under 16....

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What's that point of trying hard when it's not good enough?

What's that point of trying hard when it's not good enough?

I'm working as hard as I can at school and I can just about manage C's for my gcse's. what is the point of all of this hard work if I can't get the grades I want and get a...

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I'm ten and in love

I'm ten and in love

This may come across as really weird but I think my feelings for this boy in my class are too strong to be normal. I have had a crush on him since nursery and I am utterly obsessed which I...

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Parents think I'm not revising

Parents think I'm not revising

Hi, I'm just stressed at the moment, because my parents keep putting me down, and to an extent there's only so much a person can take. I am currently in year 10 and later in June I have end of...

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I'm so confused?? Mental Health

I'm so confused?? Mental Health

I try really hard in school, especailly Maths because I always find that one the hardest. I suffer from depression, anxiety and panic disorders, OCD, I also self-harm and have an eating disorder. I used to be bulimic too. I've...

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Disappointing Results Advice?

Disappointing Results Advice?

I just recieved my GCSE results and I was quite disappointed with them, they were worse than I was expecting. Everybody has been saying they are good but I just don't see it that way. I want to do Chemistry...

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Starting Year 11

Starting Year 11

I am a 15 year old boy just starting year 11 and I am also starting 3 controlled assessments straight away meaning that I feel the pressure of doing well starts now! Last year, I took 2 exams early I...

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I can't deal with it any more

I can't deal with it any more

Dear Sam, ...

I hate my school I have no fruends there and I am under so much pressure. I hate all the teachers cos I can't talk to them. I really want to move schools but my mum doesn't...

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School Life

School Life

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im deaf. I go to a normal school and i try to be everyone's friend and try to help them all. But whenever i need help I never get any. I'm in year 9 and taking my options...

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injections in school.

injections in school.

I had a letter from the school nures saing that year 7 are getting injections in school but it diden't say when where getting injections . I'm worried about getting injections at school and scared and terrified of needles. of...

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School Stress

School Stress

I'm 17 and am in my second year of sixth form and I've just finished the process of applying to university. The universities I have applied for have fairly high grade requirements and even though my predicted grades are good...

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My school P.E. Teacher.

My school P.E. Teacher.

Hi Sam,...

So today I was at school and it was 2nd lesson which was P.E. At my school we have to line up to go in to the changing  rooms to change into our P.E. Kits. A couple...

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Back to school

Back to school

Going back to school after a holiday is horrible not because of school but because I can't be myself anymore the whole image thing starts again and I can't be bothered with worrying about other peoples opinions but sadly I...

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I think there is something wrong with me.

I think there is something wrong with me.

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I just can't seem to concentrate at school and I don't know why, it's like my brain chooses what I concentrate on and not me. I constantly get into trouble at school because teachers say I don't concentrate...

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Being joked at because i let people but it hurts???

Being joked at because i let people but it hurts???

I've been at this school for 3 years. I built strong relationships with people but i am known for being the silly, golibal, kind of girl. I never get mad at people but if i do people don't talk to...

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Scared of going to school!

Scared of going to school!

Dear Sam,...
So today, I actually faked sick so I could stay off and didn't get any sleep last night because I was worrying about school. For about a year now, before I go to sleep. I panic about school...

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all of my teachers hate me

all of my teachers hate me

Dear sam, all of my teachers hate me.  They always shout at me for nothing.  One of them even said the t*ss word to me. I have had seven teachers in the last three years. My life at school is...

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school trip

school trip

so there's this school trip everyone wants to gogo on that's coming up soon but it's going to a theme park and going camping with lots of things like high ropes and stuff and i really don't want to go...

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I really want to tell me teacher !!

I really want to tell me teacher !!

Dear Sam ,...
I have been struggling alot with my life currently , I can only explain it by saying that I feel terribke alot sad , anxious and depressed but I still laugh and smile and can act normal...

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Pressure

Pressure

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All the way through my life,I have been expected to be the top of my class and been known as the know it all. I'm now in high school and just took my options, but I feel so pressured...

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Homeschool

Homeschool

Im depressed/anxious/nervous of school, i get called a devastation by all the kids and i get laughed at. Im in year 9 (in year 10 in 4 weeks) and i cant cope. I would like to get homeschooled but my...

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I do not know.....

I do not know.....

I am really scared of school for 3 terams now I have been crying because my mum goes I do not want to go to schoolanymore I am in year 3 now please help me

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Going to High School

Going to High School

I've been feeling little bit stressed about going to high school. I know it will be fun, but... at first i tryed out for a dance school with my friend and well she got in but i didn't. I've been...

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Stress

Stress

I don't know what to do anymore. I really care about my grades. Like, REALLY care. I spend hours and hours revising for tests and am always working in some way for something. I guess i do well in school,...

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worried about year 6 about my sats

worried about year 6 about my sats

I am very worried about year (yr) 6 about my sats can you do something about that and i'm not sure what new years six teacher going to be like good or bad

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Music pressure on school life

Music pressure on school life

Hi Sam ...

I'm a boy who has to do an extra 8-10 hours of work a week, the work I do is music which I hate! However by doing music I get a scholarship so my parents say I...

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Starting college

Starting college

Hi I'm starting college in September and I'm so nervous! I have anxiety and depression and panic dissorder and the teachers at school knew and they learnt how to deal with me and they had meetings with my parents and...

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help please

help please

So its the summer holidays and the thought of school makes me want to burst into tears, all the subjects I have picked throughout high school, were the worst choices of my life. And now they subjects is what my...

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Greatly struggling with school.

Greatly struggling with school.

I am terrified to go to school. I hate getting an empty bus every morning because any other buses that come to my area come much later and I would be late for school. I am left waiting in the...

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Sleepover

Sleepover

One of my really close friends is having a sleepover, and she's invited all of my other friends, but not me. They are constantly talking about it and I feel really left out. I thought we were good friends, but...

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don't know what to do

don't know what to do

i am 16 years old and i have just started college and i really dont like it at all people have been bullying me since i got there and all the coursework is just gettingon top of me and i...

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Can't handle sixth form

Can't handle sixth form

I knew A Levels were going to be a lot harder than GCSES and i knew that i would have to put a lot more effort in if i wanted to succeed. Even after only a month of being at...

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left out

left out

hi sam it is nothing big but it hurts me inside more than people realise i feel disinvolved sometimes i have told someone at school they said to try and involve yourself and dont make them come to you so...

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Brony and worried

Brony and worried

Hey and yes I am a brony, but im worried about making youtube videos incase my friends find out and make fun of me plus i am 12 and a boy, but im scared of my friends finding out im...

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A - LEVEL STRESS

A - LEVEL STRESS

Hi I just started a-levels this year.All the coursework is piling up on me and I can't handle it. There it too much workand iI don't know what to do. I can hardly sleep at night with stress from school...

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Lie too far

Lie too far

I've lied about something to my guidance teacher see I never liked going to registration and I lied and said I had to meet my cousin with the keys and she started asking more questions then I told her that...

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name calling

name calling

what happens if someone starts tocall you names and if they make fun on how you speak

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injections in school

injections in school


Hi Sam I am in year 8 and this will be my first injection in school I am really scared I am terrified of neadles please help my we are in a room with the nurse and my friends aren't...

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I still don't know what to do.

I still don't know what to do.

I'm 15 and in my final year of school, I'm taking my GCSE's at the end of the year and maybe will scrape a C's. I have to apply to six form or apply for colleges but there's one problem,...

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Not Wanting To Be School Council But its a big responsibility

Not Wanting To Be School Council But its a big responsibility

Dear Sam. My Name Is K )I was nominated for school council.  But I don't  want to be anymore! My freinds and techers say its a big responsiblite. on the other hand part of myself says that i should keep...

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Gcse

Gcse

I am goings i be doing gcses soi and I am deciding what gcses I want to take but I don't know what I want to be when I'm older so it is harder for me to decide.   Help!!!!!!

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Trouble Sleeping?

Trouble Sleeping?

This is a minor problem compared to the many letters I've read on this site, but I'm having trouble sleeping at night and it's affecting how well I'm doing at school. I often find it hard to concentrate in lessons...

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Future

Future

Hello there, i am now 17 years old and i dont know what to realistically plan to be, can you believe that i still dont even know what i will pick for university? please help me to have ideas on...

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School, school, school

School, school, school

Hi, i am now in sixth form and i get sooooooooo much work from school, sometimes, i get caught up in the middle of everything that i do not know hwere to start from, and this makes me just lay...

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school times

school times

Hi sam,...
I have a problem. If i am late for school I get a detention and i have never had one before. People are late because the buses are late and unless the bus is a school bus they...

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my anxiety

my anxiety

I have Add,(Attention deficit disorder),and I get bad anxiety.At my recent add appointment last Thursday I told my add specialist how my anxiety has risen.My mum agreed with me and my auntie too.The add specialist nurse said how about a...

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