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Coping with my aunts death

Coping with my aunts death

On Feburary 10th my aunt passed away due to cancer. We were EXREMELY close. She was like another mum to me and she once told me that I was the daughter she never had....

I feel like I am breaking...

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2 year anniversary of dads death coming up

2 year anniversary of dads death coming up

Hi...My dad died when I was 16 on 6th December 2010. He'd been ill for over 9 years with kidney failure which resulted in him having to go on dialysis. For 9 years I watched him in pain and now...

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My life...

My life...

So many people has died in my family: my dad, grandmother, cousin, aunty and my grandad it has been a tough year this year because i cant cope with any thing i feel like im going to explode i cant...

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Death

Death

My uncle died in july and my whole family was so upset by it. I don't live with my dad so it's like my mom has to go through it alone. My brother is anoying and sometimes i love him...

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Dad

Dad

I am arguing with mum a lot and am very angry with her all the time. Dad died 2 yrs ago and she has moved on!!! I still miss him. She has moved her b/f in. He is a nice...

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Alone & Hurt

Alone & Hurt

In 2010 I became my mums full time carer I done everything for her, she got diagnosed with breast cancer in 2005 and she was in remission for a few months then we found out the cancer came back but...

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My Brother

My Brother

hi sam my brother died two years ago he killed himself at the time i was extremely sad but now as i get older i cant help question every single moment why he did it and that maybe i could...

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My mum passed away and people talking about mothers day is tough

My mum passed away and people talking about mothers day is tough

My Mum passed away almost 2 years ago and I'm always sad about it, but with mothers day coming up I've been getting really upset when people mention it and it's a big trigger for my self harm. I feel...

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dads death

dads death

I am 14 years old and my dad died 7 years ago, when i was seven. Even though it was a while ago, I am quite sensitive so I still get upset about it....
I get very jealous when people...

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I recently lost my dad and mum

I recently lost my dad and mum

hiya, urm, well i don't really know howto start, i'm finding it really hard to get up in morning, i feel so down. I recently lost my dad and mum, i'm having counselling but its not working as i don't...

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RIP

RIP

In December my best friend died of cancer. At first it I felt pain but my body just felt like a nothingness. Now I have come to my senses, I miss her so so so much. I wish she was...

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It's all happening again

It's all happening again

Sam, my best friend died 10 months ago and I miss him so much, it feels as if he's just died all over again I just miss him so much and I don't think I can cope with this again

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Depression after my mum died

Depression after my mum died

Hi sam...
im j...! My mum died just under 2 years ago however I am struggling a lot I am been bullied at school about it and I can't be positive. I am so angry that she has died and...

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Dog dieing

Dog dieing

Please could you help me to get over my dog dieing she was really young and I loved so very much I would apprechate if you gave me some advice on how to get over her dieing she was called...

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my neighbour

my neighbour

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My neighbour died a few days ago and it was a shock as she seemed fine and knowone was expecting it. We were really close and the whole village knew her, I'm really upset and going to miss...

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Am I depressed or is this normal?

Am I depressed or is this normal?

My dad died about 3 months ago, which was such a traumatic experience, because it was so sudden and I found him. Ever since then I've been having these urges to cut myself, I haven't attempted doing this, but one...

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My best friend died.

My best friend died.

So back in December my best friend ended her life and it physically and mentally broke me, I almost tried to myself....

I haven't really coped with the loss and non of my friends understand and nor do my family...

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losing both parents within a week of each other

losing both parents within a week of each other

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i lost my mam to cancer last week and now ive lost my dad as well through suicide. My 5 year old sister thinks it was because he didn't love us and ive tried to explain it wasn't because...

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i am in care

i am in care

i am in care because i have reacently lost my mum to cancer so it is really hard snd i also self harm an i am trying very hard to stop can you plz help me.

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Awkward conversations after death

Awkward conversations after death

In 2011, my auntie passed away, leaving a bunch of my cousins without a mum. My nan and grandad were both distraught at her funeral and no one has mentioned her since. This makes me feel awkward because I was...

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I can't eat

I can't eat

Two days ago, someone that I used to be in a relationship with got into a car accident and died. I can't eat anything. It's not that I'm not hungry, it's just nothing seems like it tastes good and nothing...

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Death of something I love

Death of something I love

My guinea Pig died About an hour ago. I'm crying my eyes out and I don't know why. It was a big shock to me, I was just playing my iPad at 8:30am and I thought of feeding Milo. (Milo...

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Mum

Mum

Coming up to Christmas has been tough for the last 4 years as my mum died four years ago and each year it gets harder I can't sleep and don't even feel like going to school..

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just sad

just sad

Hi , so when i was 1 my dad died and usally round xmas it pops into my head so basically i just need some advice on how to get rid of this

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Am I depressed?

Am I depressed?


I've lost a loved one due to suicide a year and a half ago and haven't felt myself since then. I'm always unhappy and can't be bothered to do anything. I've been having sleepless nights even though I use this...

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