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  • finding-strength

    26 July 2012 at 18:48

    my supposed 'friend'

     

    I've known this girl since reception and i'm her best friend and she always has been violent with slapping punching, kicking etc I thought she would grow out of it but she hasn't. It got really bad before, she punched me on the back over 400 times i know because she counted. I told the school after my other friends persuaded me to but soon again it started, then she ended up severely damaging my fee (fracturing te right) so i told my mum and she told her mum, although my mum said it was an accident she seemed to have understood. Now it has just started again and i'm sick of it, if you tell her to stop she carries on. I've told her mum, my mum and the school and that still hasn't stopped her, I don't want to lose her as a friend but I'm scared of what will happen next, help please!

    Thanks

  • skylarks123

    27 July 2012 at 07:27

     

    Hiya,

    What your friend is doing is really wrong because no one has the right to treat you so badly.  If the school fails to help you, then you should get your mum to take you to the police.  This sounds really scary, but honestly, your safety is more important than anything else here.  Don't worry, the police won't put her in jail or anything but they might just make her realise how serious hurting you really is.

    I hope this helps...  Stay strong!  Good luck!

    xxSkylarks123xx

  • finding-strength

    08 August 2012 at 21:01

     
    skylarks123 - 27 July 2012 at 07:27

     

    Hiya,

    What your friend is doing is really wrong because no one has the right to treat you so badly.  If the school fails to help you, then you should get your mum to take you to the police.  This sounds really scary, but honestly, your safety is more important than anything else here.  Don't worry, the police won't put her in jail or anything but they might just make her realise how serious hurting you really is.

    I hope this helps...  Stay strong!  Good luck!

    xxSkylarks123xx

     

    thanks for the help but honestly i have a feeling even if i did do that she wouldn't stop, or she wouldn't talk to me. I don't want this to get big but i'm scared of confronting her if im honest:L

    emileh25 xx

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