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  • TheTornadoPlanes_

    30 May 2012 at 20:48

    Why Are some "children" loosing ther virginity sooo ea

     

    Hi,

    I understand when your are 'ready' , you will eventually loose your virginity, but why are children as young as 10/11/12, Doing this already, where are there parents exactly? Im not trying to be judgemental, or maybe i am, but seriously wouldn't you want to respect your self and your body, when you are a young girl.

    For boys its different, but for girls I thought i was something special & serious as in (deep thoughts), because one you loose it, you can never get it back?

    I think some girls should wait, before they regret something in years to come. I guess it is kinda OK, when you are 14/15 because you are more mature and you know what your doing, but PLEASE! Don't be pressured into sex, just be patient, because boys will respect you and take you seriously, when you are older. xo

    ¬My Original View.. what are your views. .x

    TheTornadoPlanes_

  • xXRockyXx

    30 May 2012 at 21:02

     

    In my opinion, it's over sexualised media. Music videos that have half naked women in them talking about sex and the internet are two prime examples. 
  • GrannyWeatherwax

    30 May 2012 at 21:28

     

    Did you know that apparently alot of people hit puberty around about eight years old so biologically speaking we are ready for sex from a much earlier age. This doent mean i think we should. However i'm kind of annoyed at the way you've put the point across in a sexist manner. "For boys its different"? I know girls who see it as fun, not serious at all and guys who see it as "something special and serious". Other than that i understand your point. 
  • emmii

    30 May 2012 at 21:52

     

    I'm sixteen and I'm still scared for my life to do 'it' and have sex. It seems like the most scary thing in the world to me at the moment and I agree, although I haven't heard of many children that young having sex. That is wrong. Apparently anybody under the age of 13 could never actually consent to that; if anybody has sex with a person under the age of 13, it's 'rape' whether the child agrees to it or not, because the guy is abusing their vulnerability and naivity. It shouldn't happen. I don't know - are kids these age pressured into it or do they actually want it? I'm thinking that they're probably pressured into it. Or maybe they're 'scared' that they're virgins or something, as my friend was like that (although this is stupid in my opinion). I don't know...

    Em

    x
  • SoonToBeLeft

    30 May 2012 at 22:34

     

    Hi,

    I would like you to know that you seem a very mature person who has their morals pointing in the right place unlike some people. Do you feel angry at the thought of people having sex before they are 16? If you could do something about it, what would you do and how would you go about doing it? There should be more work done to prevent underage sex since it is not acceptable.

    Take care. 

    P.S

    I like how you refer to them as children. Ha! Ha! Well, they are at the end of the day in the eyes of the law.  
  • funkymonkey123

    31 May 2012 at 07:37

     
    TheTornadoPlanes_ - 30 May 2012 at 20:48

     

    Hi,

    I understand when your are 'ready' , you will eventually loose your virginity, but why are children as young as 10/11/12, Doing this already, where are there parents exactly? Im not trying to be judgemental, or maybe i am, but seriously wouldn't you want to respect your self and your body, when you are a young girl.

    For boys its different, but for girls I thought i was something special & serious as in (deep thoughts), because one you loose it, you can never get it back?

    I think some girls should wait, before they regret something in years to come. I guess it is kinda OK, when you are 14/15 because you are more mature and you know what your doing, but PLEASE! Don't be pressured into sex, just be patient, because boys will respect you and take you seriously, when you are older. xo

    ¬My Original View.. what are your views. .x

    TheTornadoPlanes_

     

    Im 11 and my boyf loves me so its ok
  • TheTornadoPlanes_

    31 May 2012 at 09:48

     

    Yh that was a mistake, sorry.
  • TheTornadoPlanes_

    31 May 2012 at 10:06

     
    emmii - 30 May 2012 at 21:52

     

    I'm sixteen and I'm still scared for my life to do 'it' and have sex. It seems like the most scary thing in the world to me at the moment and I agree, although I haven't heard of many children that young having sex. That is wrong. Apparently anybody under the age of 13 could never actually consent to that; if anybody has sex with a person under the age of 13, it's 'rape' whether the child agrees to it or not, because the guy is abusing their vulnerability and naivity. It shouldn't happen. I don't know - are kids these age pressured into it or do they actually want it? I'm thinking that they're probably pressured into it. Or maybe they're 'scared' that they're virgins or something, as my friend was like that (although this is stupid in my opinion). I don't know...

    Em

    x

     

    Hey Emmii,

    Thnx for replying, I don't know about you, but In my school, in year 7 there is sooo many kids loosing their virginity, (the majority for girls not guys) I don'ty speak for the boys because I don't know how they think, but the boys around my area are mainly negative speaking about girls (they say nasty things i cant really say -__- so my view is different to others.

    It seems like the Girls who are 11/12/ know what there doing, because they act like it don't bother them, and do it anyways. Like this girl in my school she is 12, and she does it for attension, but everyone knows she actually did it because there is a nasty video spreading around my whole school, and i feel sooo ashamed for her !!

    me too im scared to loose it aswell

    Thanks for replying btw xoxox

    (I didnt mean to offend anyone)

    TheTornadoPlanes_ x
  • TheTornadoPlanes_

    31 May 2012 at 10:23

     
    SoonToBeLeft - 30 May 2012 at 22:34

     

    Hi,

    I would like you to know that you seem a very mature person who has their morals pointing in the right place unlike some people. Do you feel angry at the thought of people having sex before they are 16? If you could do something about it, what would you do and how would you go about doing it? There should be more work done to prevent underage sex since it is not acceptable.

    Take care. 

    P.S

    I like how you refer to them as children. Ha! Ha! Well, they are at the end of the day in the eyes of the law.  

     

    Heey SoonToBeLeft! x

    Lol well yeah underage sex, its scary to think about, it kinda like abuse!! The law doesnt change anything tbh, because they still do it. But no offence but there parents should be looking out for them and protecting them, and giving infomation about the birds and the beesss lol!!

    Thanks for replying and saying I'm mature btw, I like that haha

    Take Care

    x
  • TheTornadoPlanes_

    31 May 2012 at 11:00

     
    funkymonkey123 - Today at 07:37

     

    Im 11 and my boyf loves me so its ok

     

    How olds ur bf?-_-
  • DarkPurple77

    31 May 2012 at 11:26

     
    TheTornadoPlanes_ - Today at 10:06

     

    Hey Emmii,

    Thnx for replying, I don't know about you, but In my school, in year 7 there is sooo many kids loosing their virginity, (the majority for girls not guys) I don'ty speak for the boys because I don't know how they think, but the boys around my area are mainly negative speaking about girls (they say nasty things i cant really say -__- so my view is different to others.

    It seems like the Girls who are 11/12/ know what there doing, because they act like it don't bother them, and do it anyways. Like this girl in my school she is 12, and she does it for attension, but everyone knows she actually did it because there is a nasty video spreading around my whole school, and i feel sooo ashamed for her !!

    me too im scared to loose it aswell

    Thanks for replying btw xoxox

    (I didnt mean to offend anyone)

    TheTornadoPlanes_ x

     

    Hey just a little tip. Tell them all to get rid of that video because they could get done with child porn.
  • TheTornadoPlanes_

    31 May 2012 at 11:39

     
    DarkPurple77 - Today at 11:26

     

    Hey just a little tip. Tell them all to get rid of that video because they could get done with child porn.

     

    Hey, Its got out of hand, and I dont wanna get invovled, because they might think i grassed them up so.. yeahh xx
  • emmii

    31 May 2012 at 15:41

     
    TheTornadoPlanes_ - Today at 11:39

     

    Hey, Its got out of hand, and I dont wanna get invovled, because they might think i grassed them up so.. yeahh xx

     

    that must be so awful for her :O poor girl!!!! Is she your friend? I'll bet she's so upset right now, and embarrassed, did she, like, *know* she was being filmed?

    *WHAT* 

    Em

    x
  • TheTornadoPlanes_

    31 May 2012 at 18:52

     
    emmii - Today at 15:41

     

    that must be so awful for her :O poor girl!!!! Is she your friend? I'll bet she's so upset right now, and embarrassed, did she, like, *know* she was being filmed?

    *WHAT* 

    Em

    x

     

    She ain't my friend she's a girl 2 years below me at school ..

    I think she knew she was being filmed, otherwise she would of stopped, It was her and her boyfriend, and a few of his mates, and the guys were all laughing -__-, so thats why i think  SOME boys don't care, I FEEL soooo upset for her, shes 11 !!! Thats why its even worst.

     

    Take Care

    x
  • TommiM

    31 May 2012 at 20:13

     

    I'm 12 and a boy, and I admit, I think that the majority of girls take this sort of thing more seriously, BUT, there are some of us guys do take it seriously, and there a girls who don't... There's a girl at my school like this and she's the same age as me, and, yeah, she  does it for attention. I feel sorry for her because she ends up more bothered about talking to boys than trying hard at school. When she's older she'll regret

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