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 My gf is so confusing,Help needed!

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  • NinjaBunnysShallEatUs

    12 July 2012 at 19:48

    My gf is so confusing,Help needed!

     

    Hey,

    My gf is being so confusing. shes still likes her ex i think (whos a bitch), and a few days ago her ex started saying I was a lire cause I told my gf i self harm (witch I do and i only told her) And I taught she had made it up. but my gf, lets calls her nicky.

    Nicky told (lets call her ex mily) Milly and then milly basicly started going into bitch mode. then Nicky said she would tell Milly a bunch of stuff about her. then I blocked Milly and when i logged into fb the next moring Nicky had blocked me and then my over bff (lets call her Tay), Tay tells me shes put shes single on her page and she wont tell her why she blocked me.

     

    So one moment Nicky is telling me that she loves me and we are talking about names for our kids then shes just avoding me?!?!

     

    Some help??

     

    -Ashia p.s we only talked via fb
  • spark123

    13 July 2012 at 09:36

     

    Hi, you may not want to hear this but it seems to me that your gf still has feelings for her ex and when her ex has told her that you are lieing those feelings have controlled her and caused her to believe her ex and not you which i honestly think is disgraceful because she supposedly loved you. 

    I think your gf is confused and you really do need to speak to her about this situation and tell her how your feeling.

    If i was you i would talk to her and if she did still have feelings for her ex question her and ask if she wants to be with your or her ex and from that you work to build your relationship back up or its over.

    hope this has helped sorry if it hasnt and seems like a load of rubbish. always here to talk good luck :) x
  • NinjaBunnysShallEatUs

    14 July 2012 at 16:50

     

    Thanks anyway, I am thinking of asking her to take a break

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