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  • sparkles23

    11 July 2012 at 16:21

    Please help! Police

     

    I made a big mistake. A huge one. We have a family friend and their daughter is only ten. She's horrible though. She attacked and hurt my little sister and she gets everything she wants and is spoilt and selfish.she hurts people until she gets what she wants. I text the parents things like their daughter needed a good slap on the face and was spoilt and selfish. The dad kept calling and texting me like twenty times literally and he doesn't know it was me but he told my dad. He has gone to his daughters school and the police and they are now going to track me down. I'm so scared. I'm suicidal wanting to escape and from things at home too. I can't cope. He told my dad he would rip the persons head off when he found out who it was. Please help. Oh and I'm 16. I should know better. I'm so scared.
  • Ghostwolf

    11 July 2012 at 19:50

     

    Please dont commit suicide! You always have something to live for. Tell a parent or family member about it. Maybe the family freind will understand if you explain but they will probably be angry for a bit. Good luck and stay tight
  • skylarks123

    12 July 2012 at 00:00

     

    Please don't beat yourself up about something that you've already done.  And people make mistakes that they regret at any age.  You were angry because she hurt your sister and that is totally normal.  I think that you should tell an adult who is a family friend and explain your side of the story.  Make sure that he / she totally understands your regret and maybe the two of you can talk to your dad together.  Because they are an adult and a friend, your dad will be a lot more respectful towards you and you can sort it out.  He's probably done something he's ashamed of too and I'm sure he'll forgive you.  But make sure that you tell him before he finds out any other way, which might make him distrustful and angry before you get your say.  Good luck!!  I hope things get better for you.
  • sparkles23

    12 July 2012 at 19:25

     

    Hi guys

    thank you for replying first of all, I didn't think anyone would. I told my mum and dad what I did and they are both really angry, in fact they're furious but I feel better now I told the truth. I told our family friend too that it was me and he was furious too but the police aren't involved like he threatened before and I didn't get hurt. It was really out of character for me to send those texts and I'm disappointed in myself but I guess I can only learn and move on. Thank you for your kind words. It meant a lot. :) 

    Sparkles23 x
  • James4013

    15 August 2012 at 22:28

     
    sparkles23 - 11 July 2012 at 16:21

     

    I made a big mistake. A huge one. We have a family friend and their daughter is only ten. She's horrible though. She attacked and hurt my little sister and she gets everything she wants and is spoilt and selfish.she hurts people until she gets what she wants. I text the parents things like their daughter needed a good slap on the face and was spoilt and selfish. The dad kept calling and texting me like twenty times literally and he doesn't know it was me but he told my dad. He has gone to his daughters school and the police and they are now going to track me down. I'm so scared. I'm suicidal wanting to escape and from things at home too. I can't cope. He told my dad he would rip the persons head off when he found out who it was. Please help. Oh and I'm 16. I should know better. I'm so scared.

     

    well you have 2 choices

    1st which i don't recommend,

    Take the sim out of your phone and get a new one

    or 

    Own up to the police and say you were wrong and tell them why you did it!
  • TheCoolQueenOfMusic8

    19 August 2012 at 17:35

     

    Its ok . Its obvious the parents dont understand what shes doing. tell your dad your just sticking up for  your sister and  the people she hurts! she may have a troubled home and need help. Its her whose wrong not you! Calm down and tell your mum and dad. It will be ok, i promise, or tell childline! People may disagree with what i say but if i were you i would tell someone :). It will be ok, im sure
  • CrazyForChocolate

    26 August 2012 at 08:05

     
    sparkles23 - 11 July 2012 at 16:21

     

    I made a big mistake. A huge one. We have a family friend and their daughter is only ten. She's horrible though. She attacked and hurt my little sister and she gets everything she wants and is spoilt and selfish.she hurts people until she gets what she wants. I text the parents things like their daughter needed a good slap on the face and was spoilt and selfish. The dad kept calling and texting me like twenty times literally and he doesn't know it was me but he told my dad. He has gone to his daughters school and the police and they are now going to track me down. I'm so scared. I'm suicidal wanting to escape and from things at home too. I can't cope. He told my dad he would rip the persons head off when he found out who it was. Please help. Oh and I'm 16. I should know better. I'm so scared.

     

    I got reported to thepolice as well for cyberbullying just because I sent an ex - classmate a text on someone else's phone saying "Hi loserboy" and another from my phone saying "Hi, it's Emma", a girl in my class. I got reported by his mum and my parents got told but I dont really care any more. Do you know why. Because my parents weren't that upset because they knew the person's mum overreacted. Anyone, I've learnt from that experience and I'll never do it again. Just admit it and say it was a joke and why you did it - that you were scared about your sister's wellbeing - and then the police wont have to get involved further. Hope you get through it well. And feel free to mail or quote me if you need anymore help on the matter.

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