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29/05/10 9:00pm 

SATS 

Im exhausted and ive done 4 weeks of sats and all the other schools have only done 1. And now were doing more hard work and in high school so hard. Im depressed. Help what shall i do
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Sam 

10/06/10 12:11pm 

Hi there

Thanks for getting in touch with me. It sounds like your school work is getting on top of you, stressing you out and making you miserable.

It's great that you decided to speak to someone about it. This can be a really difficult time of year for a lot of young people.

Because its the end of the school year it's not unusual to start feeling tired and depressed. You've been working very hard for a long time.

I'm wondering if there is anyone in school you can talk to about all this? If not maybe another adult or one of your friends?

There is lots of information about school problems on the homework and exams page.

You could also check out the BBC website this provides alot of advice and information for different age groups. Also check out The Homework Elepgant websitefor some useful advice.

You can talk to a ChildLine counsellor about absolutely anything that's worrying you. No problem is too big or too small.  Phone 0800 1111 this is available 24 hours a day 7 days a week.

You can also chat to someone online in a 1-2-1 chat or maybe just have a look at the other Ask Sam letters or the ChildLine message boards.

Take care

Sam

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