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22/03/10 8:00am 

Kids in school 

all of my friends are pretty much boys, and whenever i hang out with them, girls always bully me aying im their girlfriend. They call me mean names and rude obsenaties. I'm only 12 and im sick of all of thi nonsense, what shoudl I do? Please help me

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Sam 

30/03/10 2:44pm 

Hi there

I’m sorry to hear about how the girls are treating you.They are wrong to shout things and bully you.

It sounds like you have some good friends who happen to be boys have you told any of them what’s going on? I am wondering that if this is happening at school how would it feel to talk to a teacher that you trust?

If it is outside school, you could try talking to a parent or another adult and let them know what is going on and how you feel.

If you would like to talk a bit more about what is happening come and speak to a ChildLine counsellor  either in a 1-2-1 online or by phone on 0800 1111.

Take care

Sam

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