me and my bf have been going out for almost a year next month, he means the world to me and i know he loves me a lot.
the problem is he is to controlling, in other words he says things like he's got the right to control my life, tell me what i can and cant do and that i have to listen to everything he's says. i ain't a person who really listens to people so as you can imagine i don't listen to him which just leads to worse situations.
he swears at me al the time calling me really nasty names but yet i still don't say anything. he says i deserve being treated like this as in the past i have lied to him. the lies i have told him i wouldn't exactly class them as lies as i only said them to prevent arguments in our relationships. i lied about going shopping with my mates and little things like that because if i tell the truth it just damages the relationship further. does he have the right to not let me go out with my mates because im only 17 and as far as im concerned i realy don't see that as a problem he's too worried about me hooking up with some other guy.
daily he accuses me of cheating which i have not done all it does is breaks my heart and leaves me to tears everyday. do you think i should stay with this guy. i love him so much we break up like every 2 days but we cant live without each other. he also is suffering from depression as he's parents spilt up couple weeks ago hence the reason why i feel i have to stay with him in order to support him and help him get through this. and thats another reason why i let him treat me the way he does.. e.g swear at me and manipulating me... i need advice realy bad
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