Hi, and thanks for writing to me.
I can see that it must be so hard for you at the moment, with all the pressure of revising and exams coming up. Your mum is not helping by putting extra pressure on you and having angry outbursts.
I’m glad you have written to me and told me how you feel, rather than keep it all inside and letting the pressure build up. You really need the support and understanding of your parents at this time, so that you can study with the least amount of stress.
It sounds like your mum really needs to understand that her behaviour is not helping. I wonder if you are able to talk to mum about how you feel when she puts pressure on you? She may not realise what she’s doing. Alternatively, maybe someone would talk to her on your behalf? This could be your dad, another relative or even a teacher at school that can explain to mum that she needs to back off a bit.
I’m sure your mum thinks she’s doing what’s best for you, but as you said, parents aren’t always right! If she realises that you are LESS likely to do well in your exams if she puts too much pressure on, then maybe she will give you some space.
Another option might be to find a more peaceful place to do your revision, like at a friend or relative's house that is a less stressful environment. Maybe your form tutor would be helpful and arrange somewhere you could go after school hours.
It’s good that you have been able to tell someone how you’ve been feeling about all this and if you want more support, or someone to talk to you can always contact ChildLine on 0800 1111 to speak to a counsellor or maybe sign up for an account and use email or online chat.
Take care,
Sam.