Hello, thank you for sending your letter to me.
I can see that things are really difficult at home right now and that you are not sure how you feel about your dad and what he did. Sometimes, when things happen unexpectedly, it can take a few days before you are able to make sense of it all in your head. It sounds like the way dad behaved before he left had a big impact on you and perhaps this is something you can talk to your dad about when you next see him. Would you feel OK doing this?
It’s really important that you know that what is happening isn’t your fault. As an adult your dad is responsible for his own behaviour. I’m worried about what you are saying about your dad attacking your brother – is he OK? If you do ever feel like you or your brother are in danger you can always phone the police on 999 for help.
It’s OK to feel confused about all the things that have happened – do you feel you might be able to talk to your mum about how you are feeling?
By getting in touch with ChildLine you now have someone who can support you and you do not have to go through this on your own. We would encourage you to come and have a talk with one of the counsellors at ChildLine by giving us a ring on 0800 1111 or requesting a 1-2-1 chat through the ChildLine website.
Take care,
Sam