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29/08/10 9:37am 

GCSE's 

Im 13 years old, and going to be in year 9 and my moc GSCE's are coming up and well my dad is pressuring me i told him im aming c's at the moment he started on me saying he wanted me to get all a's, and all that but i never have my say and it scares me knowing that what if i get bad results and my dad will get real mad.
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Sam 

9/09/10 12:27pm 

Thanks for your letter

I’m really sorry to read that you feel under pressure from your dad. Lots of young people find exams stressful, especially if parents expect high results.

It might be difficult but its important not to let your dad’s feelings make you too worried before your exams.

It sounds like you’re trying your best but have you thought about telling your dad how much you worry about his reaction? Tell him that any pressure might not help you when you come to do the exams.

ChildLine has information about beating exam stress. Have a look the advice about exams and revision. It’s important to look after yourself when you are doing exams.

You may want to come and talk to a counsellor here about this either by calling 0800 1111 or have a 1-2-1 chat online.

Check out the ChildLine message boards too on the website. You may find these useful and other young people will provide tips and advice about coping with exams and stress.

Good luck

Sam

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