Hi there, and thanks for writing to me.
I can see that you are having a tough time with your friend, and I must say I'm really impressed with your having thought about what's going on between both of you. Relationships and friendships can be tricky and hurtful, and sometimes our friends need us to be honest with them, I can see you've done that with this friend.
No one likes their friends saying hurtful things about them, and I can understand how that has affected you and that you have decided to stop talking to her for a while.
There are quite a few things that you may want to discuss about your friendship, and I would really like you to talk these through with someone. The counsellors at ChildLine can help you by listening to you and discussing what you could do.
Please give ChildLine a ring on 0800 1111, it's open 24 hours a day, every day, and you can talk about your problem with one of the counsellors there. ChildlIne also has a live 1-2-1 online chat section on the website and you can log in for a chat..
Good luck and take care
Sam